http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvP5hcnFtntCQKffuFdFxKjsy6IX?qid=20061006211348AAUim8T
Explains my relationship with my fiancee Kayleigh and it explains alot.
I'm 14 years old andinlove with a girl Iived next to for 13 years now. I live in Georgia and here you can get married here with parents consent (wasn't hard to get). My heart is thumping at a millioin miles an hour and I just need to know what other people think. Were trying to keep it secret from other people (except friends and family) until were atleast 16 so I can't ask anyone else. So what do you think?
2007-01-14 06:48:25 · 13 answers · asked by Chester H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To all unbelievers: I am serious. Look it up on any goverment sie. It guves you ages as well.
2007-01-14 06:56:41 · update #1
I just wanted to know wjat you think but I'm not changing my mind now
2007-01-14 06:59:11 · update #2
Kunkee that doens not include parents consent.
2007-01-14 06:59:54 · update #3
I'm not having sex with her!
2007-01-14 07:07:16 · update #4
http://www.legis.state.ga.us/cgi-bin/gl_codes_detail.pl?code=19-3-2
look here
2007-01-14 07:11:09 · update #5
I think you're too young and that it'll end in divorce. Sorry, but you asked.
2007-01-14 06:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you are asking this tells alot. You are both so very young. I don't deny that you 2 have some very strong feelings for each other. The problem is that you both have so many things to go through yet and you will both be changing alot over the next few years. There are stages of growth that everyone goes through and unfortunately sometimes this is why people grow apart.Why not put off the marriage for awhile? If it is the real lasting thing and you are meant to be together it won't matter if you wait. Waiting to get married is soooo much less painful than a divorce if you aren't meant to be together down the road. The fact that you feel you need to keep it a secret is a big clue that this really shouldn't be happening just yet. When the time is absolutely right you won't feel the need to hide it at all. While you are waiting you can be saving money and planning your lives. What about your schooling right now? and what about your future education so you 2 can support yourselves and kids? Please reconsider. It sounds like you 2 care enough that waiting won't matter.
2007-01-14 07:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy A, RN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what it is your question. Yes the two of you are very young, but if the family is in agreement and they support the relationship, go ahead and get married. I have seen young couples getting married and they were very happy with each other and they had no regrets. On the other hand, I have met a few couples that got married really young and they started to wonder what would be like without the other person, and they felt like they lost years of their life because they did not have other experiences. Only time will tell what kind of couples you will be. Happily ever after, or not so happy with regrets. Remember, marriage takes a lot of work, effort, commitment, compromise, devotion and communication regardless the age. The most important is love for each other everyday including the bad days, because you will have good and bad days, but you can not forget how important that person is.
2007-01-14 07:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are telling an un-truth. The absolute youngest age someone can marry in Georgia is 16. Look it up. (links provided)
"The minimum age to get married in Georgia is 16. "
Edit - 18 w/o parental consent 16-17 w/ parental consent. 16 and under you need a court order and the female must be pregnant. Read your laws!
"The new proposal bars teens under 16 from marrying unless a juvenile court is convinced otherwise, but allows pregnant 16- or 17-year-olds to marry with parental consent or a judge's order. The measure passed by a 142-27 vote ..."
edit the 2nd - Excuse me, in 2006 the pregnancy loop hole was abolished. So no one is getting married in GA under the age of 16.
2007-01-14 06:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people (depending on their personality and character) can get married young and have a happy marriage. I know forty-year old adults who are still not mature enough to get married. It sounds like you are quite mature, most kids your age won't even think about marriage for another 20 years. One thing I will advise is try not to get your girl pregnant because it is unhealthy for a developing girl to give birth at such a young age. Also, ask yourself these questions...Did you think about your future? Are the two of you planning to go to college? What if she will want to go to college and you won't? How will you support her now, do you have a job? Where will the two of you live...with parents? I know the first couple years of marriage are crucial, you will want your privacy! Those are just several factors...but I am a believer that as long as you are truly in love then everything will be alright. God bless, good luck and congratulations!
2007-01-14 07:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Yul'ka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 14, you are way too young to marry, and for sure don't have any children. (get her on the pill, like pronto).. you are still a child. I doubt this is a real question. If your marriage lasts 5 years, I'd send you $500.00. If you have children before you are 16, and you make it 5 years I'd send you $10,000. If it doesn't, send it to me..... There is no way, two children marrying at this age will still feel that this was a good choice by the time they reach 20, no way, not ever, ain't gonna happen.
2007-01-14 07:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your WAY to young to get married. Your parents should have their heads examined. you two aren't even old enough to hold a full time job, let alone the responsibility of marriage and a family. What about school. What about when you get older and she doesn't like you anymore, or you don't like her anymore. Divorce is expensive. Can you afford to be married, and finally Do you make enough to pay for a divorce? Will you expect your parents to support you, and are they prepared to pay for you and your wife for another 5 years? You and your Parents need to seek the help of a professional.
2007-01-14 07:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnorma66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 18.... dude don't get married at 14. You have education which equals a good job and mucho dinero. Money that is to buy a house, furniture, car, kid clothes, pay bills, etc. Not buying much while working at Sonic. Love is a wonderful thing when its at the right time. Give yourself time to mature before you want to rush into things.
2007-01-14 08:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by pruittwithkids 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is way too young to marry i wouldn't want my 15 year old grandson to marry till he's at least 18 . and you wouldn't want to have children to support at that age would you? I WOULD Wait till your at least 18 and no one can stop you from marrying then and i would get my education before i married any one . you have a long time to think about marrige when your older think about it
2007-01-14 07:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to up... marriage is suppose to be a life time thing but, with the lawyers, courts etc... it can be quickly over.. if you are having doubts, i would talk with her and decide if you guys should wait.. maybe, be engaged for a year or two... just to test the waters.
2007-01-14 06:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by shelly v 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if u love each other and want t spend the rest of your life together, share the good and the bad times together then i think your doing the best thing and i wish you and your wife to be all he luck and love in the world. be happy
2007-01-14 07:00:15 · answer #11 · answered by Nicola h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋