Should I be Angry?

Question

I just came back from winter back, and am back in my dorm room. One of my pillows is missing. I mean theres one there, but its not mine. Also my blue sheet is one my roommates bed. Where its not suppose to be. So Should I be angry?

When I see him, should I
A) Be Sarcastic When I ask where its at
B) Be Blunt
C) Say Nothing
D) Ask in a calm and even tone, not to borrow or move my things without asking

Answer 1

D for sure b/c youll have to live wit him for another semester and its not fun living with someone who hates you or whatever. its always better to be nice unless someone does something unforgivable...

hope this helps you!
Laryn

Answer 2

DON'T beat around the bush - ask him WHERE did the pillow go, who's pillow is the one on your bed, and why is my blue sheet on your bed. Then tell him that if he needs to BORROW your things, he needs to ASK you if it's O.K. If he tries to blame someone else or says he doesn't know, then tell him he best keep his "friends" out of your room while you are gone if he won't take responsibility for their actions. Sarcasim just creates tension and ignoring it makes it look like you don't care.

Answer 3

D
You have to live with each other for another semester at least. Be honest and firm about rules, but don't be unnecessarily mean and cause undue friction in what is already a difficult situation.

Answer 4

I'd go for D

You missed out an option though,

E) Go Absolutley Nuts on Them

That migt be more fun.

Answer 5

B be blunt and out with it because they probably wont move your stuff around next time if you confront them directly

Answer 6

fall asleep on their bed and drool on their pillow, they'll get the point and ask for a no sharing rule!! ♥

Answer 7

B--he should of already have known it was wrong and you need to be Blunt to get it though to him. Rude people.

Answer 8

I would to say b,but the right thing would be d

Answer 9

D will probably get better results

Answer 10

a