i went on my husbands old email account to print some pics and found a unread email from his old gf kate.he never uses this email account thats why it was unread.i opened it and this is what it said-how are you? it was good to see you even if you did give me the cold shoulder.your girls are so big! kate my husband never told me he ran into her and i don't want to tell him she sent him a email.kate is not just any old gf they have a long history together to long to explain here plus he left his last wife and child for her.as far as i know he has not had any contact with her since we got married 2yrs ago but shes still local and single(looked up her myspace account)my questions are why did she send this email to my husband after they just ran into each other most likely in a store?why did she make a coment about him giving her the cold shoulder,i know my husband hes nice to everyone what was she looking for a kiss?
2007-01-14 06:10:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't take offense to this, but you married a man who was married and left his wife and child for another woman? Yikes! You know that once a cheat, always a cheat! Men do not change if they are the sort to cheat on one woman, they will cheat on another! It sounds like since he is remarried she will look upon this as a challenge and once again try to see if she has what it takes to pull him away from someone else! Some women who lack morals are like this, I don't know why! She did not feel guilty from pulling him away from his other wife and child, nor will she feel any remorse if she comes between you and your husband. Make it very clear to him if you catch him with this immoral woman in any way, it is a very clear threat to you and your marriage! Considering their history there is probably going to be messing around! Keep your eyes open!
2007-01-14 06:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Classic! She's lonely and not use to any rejection from him. sounds like he's changed a lot and his bumping into her was not worth mentioning unless he was prepared to tell you he was still trying to get over her or something like that. she had to throw his two girls in theer to get his interest in her being intersted in them. it's a silly mind game some exes play. that or she was really just being friendly and meant no harm - nah! she wants his attention and interest even if she doesn't want him anymore. don't bother your husband about it. obviously he doesn't plan on making any contact with her if she only had his old email account - that he never reads anymore! You're fine, you're his "it" lady. nothing to fret or worry about.
2007-01-14 06:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Skypride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was surprised that he gave her the cold shoulder, but doesn't sound as if she will give up. she has caused him trouble before and since he gave her the cold shoulder,seems as if he doesn't want to deal with it anymore. but women like her seldom take no for an answer, and they keep trying. just don't even mention her, but keep your eyes open for any change in behavior out of him. u can bet she won't give up that's the way they do.
2007-01-14 09:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is good that he gave her the cold shoulder and the fact that she wrote the email after that shows she is desperate which I don't believe men are atracted to...hopefully since he doesn't check that email he wont know its there and i'll bet she doesnt even cross his mind anymore. He was probably nice and cordial to her but she expected him to be happier to see her and he didn't care.
2007-01-14 06:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by xoheidixo10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and stop snooping.
He saw her and she felt he was cold? What would you rather he do?
Here's a bad idea which you will probably do. Dwell on it until you cannot stand it any longer , then you will do something stupid like confront him or her which will cause a big fight. Then he will be back in contact with her and leave you for her again.
Grow up, and stay out of his email.
2007-01-14 06:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think the important part of the message is that he gave her the cold shoulder. He probably didn't mention his run in as he didn't consider it all that important and it meant nothing to him...That's what I get out of it.
2007-01-14 06:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by radarjet67 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She either wants him back or just wants to be friends, either way, she shouldn't be talking to him. Delete the email. You have a good husband that you can trust. Don't worry, nothing will happen between them, he doesn't like her! He likes you!
2007-01-14 06:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm wondering how she knew his email address? If he doesn't use it, as you say he doesn't, then don't email addresses expire after a certain amount of time? Maybe it was a set up, knowing you'd see it. Maybe it was nothing at all.
2007-01-14 06:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he gave her the cold shoulder because he is a married man who takes that seriously and you should NOT be snooping on his computer.
Now..do the right thing, beg is forgiveness for snooping, show him the email and learn to trust this man who is obviously trustworthy!
2007-01-14 06:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by katalah 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the email it self told you that nothing is happening
maybe you should casually bring her name in a conversation
and see what he said
2007-01-14 06:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋