i have friends who can't keep my secrets even if they primise...what should i do?

Answer 1

don't tell them anymore secrets

a true friend would keep a promise

Answer 2

Your Friends Dont Sound Like True Friends From My Point Of View Have A Little Talk With Them And If Things Dont Go To Planned Your Best Of With A New Set Of Friends..<3

Answer 3

keep your mouth shut....

se·cret /ˈsikrɪt/ Pronunciation[see-krit]
–adjective
1. done, made, or conducted without the knowledge of others: secret negotiations.
2. kept from the knowledge of any but the initiated or privileged: a secret password.
3. faithful or cautious in keeping confidential matters confidential; close-mouthed; reticent.
4. designed or working to escape notice, knowledge, or observation: a secret drawer; the secret police.
5. secluded, sheltered, or withdrawn: a secret hiding place.
6. beyond ordinary human understanding; esoteric.
7. (of information, a document, etc.) a. bearing the classification secret.
b. limited to persons authorized to use information documents, etc., so classified.

–noun
8. something that is or is kept secret, hidden, or concealed.
9. a mystery: the secrets of nature.
10. a reason or explanation not immediately or generally apparent.
11. a method, formula, plan, etc., known only to the initiated or the few: the secret of happiness; a trade secret.
12. a classification assigned to information, a document, etc., considered less vital to security than top-secret but more vital than confidential, and limiting its use to persons who have been cleared, as by various government agencies, as trustworthy to handle such material. Compare classification (def. 5).
13. (initial capital letter) Liturgy. a variable prayer in the Roman and other Latin liturgies, said inaudibly by the celebrant after the offertory and immediately before the preface.
—Idiom
14. in secret, unknown to others; in private; secretly: A resistance movement was already being organized in secret.

Answer 4

If I were you I would stop telling my friends all of my secrets but if they were really your friends in the first place and you asked them not to tell and they did then maybe they dont have your best intrest in mind.

Answer 5

Friendship should be based on trust, honesty, and loyalty to you, and if they are not able to keep a secret then they are not truly your friends...


Unless on the other hand, you secretly want people to know what you are up to and tell them because you know word will get out....

Answer 6

Don't tell them any of your secrets, Only if they are your best best best friend and they can keep a secret

Answer 7

I have friends like this...and i knoe its hard not to tell them but try talkin to them about it and if they get mad then they are not true friends. Then after u talk to them about it u can tell them ur secrets then if they break a promise again dont tell them any secrest anymore

Answer 8

break up your friendship
a friend that can't even keep your secrets is not a friend, it's a traitor.
they are backstabbing you when you put your faith into them,

if you want to still be friends, then just don't tell them any secrets
or just tell them fake secrets

Answer 9

everyone, especcially every one has a friend that tell your secret to someone else, i bet that friends your talking about r your neighbors and you grew up with them? if its like that then ive already passed by that, and acttually its an every year sittuation, but dont worry, just be carefull of what you tell them, and what they still know, in a missunderstanding anything can happen, and remember what you know about them, its always good to have something that you can counter with, so in a missunderstanding, you can also make anything happen

rigth now, one of my best friend of 5 of them, almost everyday call for me to go to the street to do something, he calls someone else, and then we have a group, and we go walking by the street laughing a little, but then he starts making fun at me and saying im gay, and he isnt jocking when he says it, and im getting tired of it, but i know, that he has a girlfriend, but his also hitting in the bestfriend of his girlfriend, but she dosnt know, so, if i get ried of the same thing over and over, then i will make an anonymous call to her.

so, thats how i work, you do something to me, i do it twice to you

Answer 10

I have learned the hard way, that you can't trust people, even your best friends...so the best thing to do, (and you only have yourself to blame if you blab)...is to NOT confide in them any more...I keep telling myself this, and the one person I should be able to trust the most, seems to always back stab me...and I dont know why.She even went as far one time as to say to me,."but you tell me because you want me to say something"...now, correct me if I am wrong, but if I say, 'don't tell anyone,'...where the heck did that say to tell someone ??? I just had to learn now, not to say anything to the blabber, because she can't be trusted...and I only have myself to blame when I slip and do it...if you don't want anyone to know, learn the hard way, and DONT TELL ANYONE....they are not all as trustworthy as we are.

Answer 11

talk to them about it and dont say nothing private to them anymore get some guy friends guys seem to more trustworthy in that department at least from my expierence but yeah just stop telling those friends