I have a tendency to do that which usually only leads to more problems,but I just have this urge to speak up
2007-01-14 05:29:35
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answered by Anonymous
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A general comment? That depends. Was that general comment meant to be inflamatory or was it made out of lack of knowledge?
If it was made out of ignorance, then yes. I fell it is better to defend myself by informing the person about how wrong they are.
If it is an inflamatory comment designed to hurt me, then I usually don't say anything. What they said shows that they really are no better than me and do not deserve the knowledge that I could equip them with. After all, their mind is probably closed and anything I say would not make a difference. So I say nothing.
2007-01-14 13:32:52
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answer #2
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answered by Nep-Tunes 6
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No. Neither do I defend myself with remarks made to me, especially if they are ridiculous because that would validate the speaker.
I do, however, enjoy constructive criticism.
I also enjoy watching people get ticked off when they cannot handle general or specific comments. Very funny stuff.
2007-01-14 13:31:35
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answered by Abby 5
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Not really but I do sometimes feel the need to defend whomever I feel is being "attacked" by certain comments (ie. if someone makes a racial slur or says something really ignorant and unfair about someone else).
2007-01-14 13:32:15
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answered by Lorenz 3
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It depends on the nature of the comment,I usually like to defend myself.
2007-01-14 13:29:12
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answered by Celebrity girl 7
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Not at all. I do not feel the need to defend myself often at all.
2007-01-14 13:29:04
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answered by Cara Beth 6
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Sometimes I do, which is why I avoid conversation altogether at times. I could say I'm getting better about not thinking that way, but I really don't know.
2007-01-14 13:31:08
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answered by Anashuya 6
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Not unless I'm pretty sure it was aimed at me. And even then, not always. Sometimes it's just not worth the effort!
2007-01-14 13:33:40
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answered by Baby'sMom 7
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I stand up to be counted, if someone I like and respect is being attacked...
2007-01-14 13:31:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Depends what sort of comment it is and whether or not it was an incriminating one.
2007-01-14 13:29:19
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answer #10
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answered by xander 5
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