what is a easy and shore fire way to resolve this problem
2007-01-14 05:22:58 · 32 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Other - Business & Finance
Get rid of the free loading bum.
2007-01-14 05:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by digby_by 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak to her and tell her calmly but firmly that this situation is bothering you and cannot continue. If a man was saying his girlfriend should pay all his bills because he didn't have any money everyone would say how outragous it was and he was using her so the other way round is no more acceptable. You need to weigh up wheather or not you want to sort this out and find a way to resolve your money problems together or go it alone and sort things out yourself. Good luck :)
2007-01-14 05:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by loralailee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to assume that you knew the girl had no money when you met her--correct? If you do not care to pay her bills, let her go and find someone who is self-sufficient. If you love her, you might as well marry her and be able to claim her as a tax exemption.
Does she work at all--and just throw away her money? OR, does she just sit home all day, and wait for you to get there? Perhaps she is a student? Pregnant? Disabled? Too young to work?
If you want her, at least move her in with you--to save money if nothing else. Otherwise, show her the door.
2007-01-14 05:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and think that she loves you, sit down and talk to her about your feelings. Tell her that she is going to have to contribute to the relationship and that you will no longer be able to pay her bills. Give her a time line to find a new job, say 30 days and then withdraw your financial backing. That's my advice based on the question that you asked without any other info. Good Luck.
2007-01-14 05:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by golden_diva7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 21st century and the time when women turned to men for complete financial support has long gone.
She needs to budget better. Failing that, get better paid work or a second job.
2007-01-14 05:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live with her then you should help her out. BUT if you and her do NOT live together, then I would ask at what stage of the relationship you and her are in? Are you two an item are you engaged? If you and she are only dating then NO, it sounds like she is looking for a sugar daddy. Easy solution DUMP HER.
2007-01-14 05:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could marry her, or you could dump her. But if you are getting all of the privileges of marriage, and not living together, you should pay her way, instead of using her. Or you could just accept the fact that you are using each other. Then pay her bills.
2007-01-14 05:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your girlfriend is insistent that you pay her bills, a sure fire way to resolve the problem is to say , "NO". works every time. if that causes her to break up with you- count your lucky stars!!!
2007-01-14 05:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by shar71vette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about you get her a job and tell her that we are not in the fifties any more. Now adays, both parents have to work just to get by. Tell her that you need an independent woman. Shes not that fine and she is not a kid. Treat her like a woman.
2007-01-14 05:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has bills then she needs to get a job to pay for them.
You two should talk and tell her that you can't pay for her bills, she will have to do it herself.
2007-01-14 05:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hop on the bus Gus.
2007-01-14 05:31:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋