2007-01-14 05:05:04 · 31 answers · asked by rocknrandy77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I DID JUST TO FIND OUT THAT I WAS A NORMAL PERSON AND NOT A COLD FISH LIKE MY HUSBAND SAID, HE WAS WRONG, I'M OK AND NOW HE'S MY EX. SORRY I WAITED SO LONG.
2007-01-14 05:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I did have an affair and the reason why is because I was mentally abused in my marriage. I am not sorry that I had the affair but it was like I was living two different lives. My husband was an alcoholic and he abused me for years. I was tired of being ignored all the time and my husband treated me pretty bad. I had told my husband that I could have a boyfriend and he would never know it. I never thought that I would ever cheat on my husband because I had loved him with all my heart but I had stopped loving him because of the abuse. The man that I was seeing treated me better than my husband ever did. I was finally able to laugh at the simplest things and be able to be myself. The other guy wanted to marry me but I couldn't because he was on drugs and drank also. I never once got bored with him. I was very bored with my husband and we drifted apart. I am now divorced from my husband and I was still seeing the other man. My ex became sick with cancer and passed away in 2001. The man that I was seeing passed away in 2002 from drugs and he was in bad health. I am now married to someone else and I would no way want to cheat on him and he has no idea about my past life. If someone cheats on their spouse then they have a reason for cheating.
2007-01-14 06:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not. If it came to the point that an affair was an option in my mind that i would be moving out and getting a divorce. Why stoop that low and hurt someone else in yuor process.An affair never ends good.
2007-01-14 05:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was married 24 years when my husband died. I was once hit on by a man I worked with. The attraction was there, but I held on.
I didn't do it because I just didn't see it as having a good outcome. And, by the way, things were hard at home at the time. My husband was quite emotionally unstable and eventually took his own life.
I am so glad that I didn't give in. I can hold my head up now knowing that I was faithful to the end.
2007-01-14 05:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no because i wouldnt want to that to my bf and the other persons partner it not fair to anyone if you want to have an affair then break up with the person your with so theres no problems
good luck
2007-01-14 05:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because I love my significant other enough that I wouldn't want to hurt him unneccesarily. If the relationship is not good, then deal with that... don't cheat to make yourself feel better cause its everyone else who suffers.
2007-01-14 05:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Already been there and done it and have a daughter from that mess. I'm clean a pure now.
I don't mess around, but if you do write me and give me the details.
2007-01-14 05:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly NOT! I am extremely happy with my husband both sexually and emotionally.
Even if I wasn't completely satisfied, I would leave before cheating. I think cheating is wrong!
2007-01-14 05:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Newmomofone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I WOULD NOT. I married my wife because I love her. If I was to do that, I would not be able to live with myself, knowing I hurt the woman that loves me no matter what.
2007-01-14 06:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
I am so in love with my wife until I could walk naked down the street and shout it to the roof tops, she is truly my better half.
2007-01-14 05:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by iroc 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldnt. I cherish my husband dearly and I dont want to hurt him. Its something that could haunt you for the rest of your life.
2007-01-14 05:09:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋