When we used to date he was such a romantic person, but once we got married everything faded to the point that when i tell him I LOVE U he just keeps quiet or changes the subject. I tried everything but no hope. Please Help!
2007-01-14 05:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by Queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he may still adore you, but you are all up in each others face,..and he may have lost that initial love but you will have to give him room and find little ways of rekindling the heat
2007-01-14 05:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats men for you, once the ring is on your finger everything changes......why dont you try doing somthing romantic or go somewhere you went before you were married, if you have kids arrange a night in/out alone without the kids, its a 2 way thing
2007-01-14 13:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Aisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am getting ready to leave my husband and I treat him the same way. I don't mean to but, I know there will be LOTS of drama when I DO tell him. I have a lot of built up resentment for him. I was hoping he would leave me, since I have Been so cold to him(I really don't try to be) Maybe it's time to move on. I hope I'm wrong, talk before you do anything. Good Luck!
2007-01-14 13:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by suzzanlynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has issues with the L word. Alot of things change during the transistion of dating and marriage. Talk to him and see whats up with him and tell him how you feel.
2007-01-14 13:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with him. Tell him how you feel and what would make you feel better. Use "I" statements ("I feel this way ... ") instead of "you" statements ("you always ignore me ...") so you don't look like you are putting blame and he doesn't get on the defensive.
If that doesn't work, you may need counseling.
2007-01-14 13:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because your not intersting in bed for him anymore. Your not good enough to keep him happy sexually.
You want the truth there it is!!
Now before you go getting mad at my answer think about what I just said. I am at least 45% correct.
2007-01-14 13:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe...that's aweful...i'm so sorry, it's kind of making me nervous because i'm getting married soon and...well yeah... maybe he is scared...rethinking if it was the right choice. realize he is in for the long run. scared probably...or possibly with someone else and feeling guilty for it. i'm sorry to give you that idea but i would check out all the options. talk to him and see whats up, don't rest until you find out whats going on! and give us and update when you do...i'm interested.
2007-01-14 13:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by musclemanlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is going to clear it up until you sit down and have a heart to heart talk. Or counseling.
2007-01-14 13:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have trouble. Ask him point blank, "Do You Love Me?" Look into his eyes when he answers, if he looks away, you have your answer. Good luck.
2007-01-14 13:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats the matter
and u should know that guys r like that
2007-01-14 13:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by #%$*&♥♥ SeXY BuT SweEt♥♥#%$*& 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋