I going to get marry soon. How to know my wife is virgin or not at the time of first intercourse?

Answer 1

Its easy ,just in the first time she will bleeds very much &will pain her.

Answer 2

Why? If she isn't a virgin are you going to tell your mummy and then divorce her?? What difference does it make?? She's giving you the life commitment after all. There is no sure way of finding out whether your wife is or isn't a virgin. A non virgin can bleed when she's having sex. A woman can rupture her hymen in many ways besides having intercourse. I think the foundation of any good relationship is honesty. Just be up front with her and ask her. You can tell by her voice and eyes whether she is lying or not. I think you should still accept her regardless. India is changing with the times and you need to change too. I don't mean to be a ***** (well...) but I will not tolerate any insults against women.

Answer 3

Agreeing with 'earthling', you can't tell. It used to be that you could see the blood from the broken hymen on the sheets after a virgin's first intercourse, but women today are much more active and thus their hymens are broken far sooner (like by riding horses, or bikes, or general exercise... the hymen is pretty fragile). How important is it that you know? Are you willing to break it all off if, worst case scenario, she says that yes, a long time ago she experimented once out of curiousity (or whatever)? Or will you marry her anyway, but always have this nagging, bitter worry? Or will you marry her and forget about it? If virginity is a deal-breaker, then go ahead and ask... but if you're not prepared to go through with breaking it off over virginity, then don't ask. It will only lead to pain.
And if you do ask, and she says "no"... then believe her. You're marrying her for goodness sake, the trust has to start somewhere!

Answer 4

There is no way to know.

A hymen? NO. A woman can be born without a hymen and the hymen can be lost during the participation of sports. Also with the use of vibrators for self-pleasure, she could have broken her hymen herself. If a woman has a hymen then maybe, but if the hymen is thick than it could take many sessions of sex to fully break the hymen.

Blood? NO. Blood comes from the breaking of a thick or moderately thick hymen. Not all women bleed their first time. I did not.

Behavior that indicates experience in bed? NO. There is so much information that can be gained outside of bed. Internet, movies, friends, family, etc. Most people research sex long before they have it, meaning that if she knows something it does not mean that she isn't a virgin.

Really the only way to know is to ask her, and have faith in her that she would tell you the truth.

Answer 5

from your question it seems that you are enterring an arranged marriage. so, you must not know the person really that much. and if it is so, then she must not know you that well. here you are judging her to see if she is a virgin or not whether the real question is are you? my advice is forget her past and she will forget your past too. start a new beginning with the twp of you. who cares if she is a virgin or not?she is with you and is going to start a new life with you that all it matters. and in due time she might tell you.even if she doesnot tell you, it should not matter. try to win her heart, try to be the no.1 person who she loves not the no 1 in who nailed her.

Answer 6

If you marry with this mentally surely u go mad.

My dear friend u should know the difference between love and lust. With Love you can sit anywhere in the world but with lust can't sit anywhere in the world.

Wife is not only for sex she is more the 3 word Sex, she is life.
If your wife think as u , what happens ? both of u go mad.

What i think is Virgin is not only for women its also for men.

Its doesn't matter how she been before marriage its all about after marriage.

Answer 7

Your not going to know unless she says she is even then she could be lying. There is no fool proof way to see if a girl is a virgin or not the first time you 2 have sex.

Answer 8

Remember what matters in a marriage, communication,love trust, compassion. If you are holding her to these high standards,then of course you must be a virgin also,, so ,if her answer isn't good enough, ,,,,because you must have asked her.. then consider an outside source to speak w/ before marriage..

Answer 9

Check the hymen
Oh I can see how that conversation would go:
Darling I love you
I love you too sweetie
Want to make love?
Ok
Wait first of all I need to get my glasses and look between your legs.

Lol

Seriously, if she has never inserted anything then her hymen will be intact. She could be a virgin who has used a vibrator so you need to be careful

Answer 10

you could desire to circulate very slowly, and you could desire to make beneficial she is comfortable. while a woman has intercourse, her physique lubricates itself--variety of like how your physique makes saliva on your mouth once you scent something you wan to devour. you could desire to do a variety of of foreplay so she might have a variety of of lubrication. you could as properly purchase lubrication so there will be extra suitable. Like, you could desire to apply coconut oil, as an occasion. that's purely a sturdy concept. to sit down down back her, you may desire to in all probability not have intercourse the 1st nighttime. purely fool around and touch one yet another for some nights, even a week or 2, earlier having intercourse.

Answer 11

you cant. most likely, if she bleeds, shes a virgin, although a lack of blood doesnt mean she is not a virgin. the blood occurs when the hymen, a think membrane, is broken. however, this membrane can be broken at an time during a woman's life, just from regular activities, such as sports.