What do you do when nothing is going right ?

Question

my life is a big mistake so far. how to stay strong?

Answer 1

You should realize that God has a plan for you and everything will be alright. Just have faith in Him.

If God brings you to it,
He'll bring you through it.

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Answer 2

YOU CAN STILL STAY STRONG!!!
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Look, EACH HUMAN LIFE IS SO VALUABLE. SO NEVER THINK YOUR LIFE IS A MISTAKE.

Probably you may be a Catholic. But you can go through Buddhism while being a Catholic. Adding something from Buddhism to your life doesn't mean to say stop being a Catholic. The Holy Bible also has solutions.

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Answer 3

Honey, that is life, things do not go well ll the time. Your life is not a mistake, you cannot be negative, if you want to stay strong. Try yoga, or mediatating in a quiet area for 30 minutes a day. Try keeping a journal( I've kept a journal since 10, and it really really helps!!) Try writing poetry. Pray. Love yourself. Life is hard at times, this last year, I lost my apartment, my car and my job, and I'm still going strong and striving to achieve. Nothing can hold you down unless you let it. Usually we are our OWN worst monsters. You should check out this song called "ME" by Paula Cole. It is a very beautiful song that helped me through my dark teenage years into adulthood.

Answer 4

Neither you nor your life is a mistake. You just sound as though you are floundering a little. You ARE strong, much more than you realise and you can ride this out.

I think it helps (and this sounds sooooo cliched!) to get involved in other people's lives. I know that sounds so Pollyannish but focus a little on other people who have different/more/worse battles in their lives. Because it does sound so hackneyed and "goody two shoes" we tend to discount this option but it really does help. No, you don't have to turn into a social worker (!) but just connect a bit more with a wider range of people. You need a bit of R&R from your problems. Like anything else, the closer you are to something, the harder it is to see it in context.

Answer 5

I've felt the same way alot lately. One bad thing after another!
Do you have one good friend you can pour your heart out to?
Sometimes just talking it out will help you feel better. Talk on line to someone.
Find something to laugh about. Maybe even some of these answers will give you a smile.
Remember, your here for a reason. You may need to go through these bad times to become the person God intends you to be.
Take one day at a time, get through it and learn something from it.

Answer 6

To stay stronger is to rely on God. Go up to him in prayer. Express your sincere apology for your mistake. He understand your problem because you're imperfect. We all imperfect and we tend to make mistakes. Not even one person are perfect. It impossible to find one person out of million people on this earth. Call out to him everyday. I assure you he'll answer your prayer. If he seems to impede your prayer just be patient. After you apologize your mistake to God, make sure you immediately Change your course or chalk it up. Dont make the same mistake you've made. For example, when you bump somebody's car from behind then you say your sorry. Again you bump the car then you said your sorry. It happens again and again. This person is not sorry because he or she does the same thing. So it best he or she change the other way. I promised you...he'll forgive you and bless your effort.

Answer 7

Your life may seem like everything is going wrong but really it can only get better...stay positive...Think Positive..You never know what is around the corner its hard to give advice if I don't know what the actual problem is..nothing can stay bad forever something has to turn around...Chin Up:)

Answer 8

if you know you made mistakes - that's half the battle. just say to yourself - i will NOT make the same mistakes i've made. i will be a better person. i will try each day to make it a good day for myself and others. pray each day to God for guidance to help you make right choices and the strength to get through your bad choices with dignity and the power to make them right. life is what we make of it - so, think with a happy heart and look for the good in life - never doing something to someone else, that you don't want done to you. i wish you peace and contentment in life.

Answer 9

I know the feeling been there alot. I always tell myself I have made it through worse and I am going to survive. I also remind myself things are going to get better and I deserve that. You got to believe you are worth it and it is worth hanging on to get to the happiness you deserve. Stay focused on the good in your life no matter how small it may be.

Answer 10

Always keep in mind that things could be going worse and that you are in charge of your future. If you feel that you want things to get better than make it happen. Don't just sit there complaining (not that you are) but do something to counteract it and make your life better little by little. Thats happened to me too but now im feeling bettre than ever. Its really hard to not let things get you down but just be optimistic and try to find happiness somewhere. I realy hope that you can feel better.

Answer 11

Write down on a piece of paper what you think is going wrong. Change it by changing yourself accordingly.You and only you have the power to do this. Simple, right?