a few weeks again my bf was lookin on my phone so i tryed to get his phone i looked at the txts and there where loads from other galz i founld a txt from his ex sayin dont tell anyone what we did i asked him about this and he said it was befor we was goin out which at this time we was already kissin i dunno if it is ture beacuse befor i asked him out he said he mite get back wiv his ex and for the past few weeks i dont see him much and when i do somedays he fine with me and somedayz we funny wiv him what shell i do i lov him to bitz but he thinks i think he is cheatin on me which im not sure i dont think he wounld .
2007-01-14 04:43:00 · 16 answers · asked by nic_b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dump him and you need and english language primer,...
2007-01-14 04:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You found a text about something he did with his ex, he said he was thinking about getting back with his ex, for the last few week you don't see him much, what that tell you? wake up smell the coffee.
2007-01-14 12:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly if you loved him and trusted him you wouldnt have read his texts. Obviously there is cause for concern if you had to do this,if theres no trust the relationship wont last.Youll worry every time he goes out, and every time he gets a message, itll be hell for you. Get out now if there's any doubt he's cheating. Good luck
2007-01-14 12:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by thundercatbabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in on this site asking this question, then some part of you must feel that he would cheat on you. when you seen the text it should have said when it was sent, so that should have told you some thing. if it was sent after the two of you were together then more than likely he was with her while the two of you were together.as far as the text from other girls, i guess it depends on what they say. if the text from his ex was after you two got together then i would dump him.
2007-01-14 12:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well spelling would be a good start I mean if you talk like this on your texts then i dont think he has anything to worry about but on the other hand with you worrying if that text was really before your time or not you can go back on his phone and there should be a date and a time with every text, look at it and compare it with whenever you started dating him.
2007-01-14 12:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by signalfirst 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he was just using you for the rebound and now that his ex has come calling his happy to go running back get rid of him you sound like you are someone that deserves better Good luck :)
2007-01-14 17:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by sheila99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, find someone better. Someone that makes you happy. Then you would not need to check his phone because you will love and trust each other.
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2007-01-14 14:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really doubt you love him seems you have no trust in him whatsoever. sounds like your relationship got off to a bad start - if i were you i'd get out now and leave him to someone who will waste their time on him.
2007-01-14 12:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont trust him leave before it is to late. why would he keep that on his phone for that long ne ways ? he obviously is holding on to something
2007-01-14 12:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him thta u real yneed to know whatr is going on and thta u dont ned to deal with this and that he shouldnt put u in the position
2007-01-14 12:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
learn how to spell first then i might be able to understand your question. my advise is get rid of him, he sounds like a loser
2007-01-18 06:22:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋