My ex girlfriend is newly married and emails me from time to time about the status of her new life. And she shares their obstacles; should I end this friendship or redefine it?
2007-01-14 04:41:55 · 8 answers · asked by reme14u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell her that its very nice of her to let you know how she is doing, but that you feel uncomfortable when she shares the "obstacles" of their marriage. Say to her that you think she should save that kind of stuff for the girlfriend conversation. And slack off on anwering the emails, maybe take a few days before answering. Remind her that you get busy, that you are not married and haven't that much time.
2007-01-14 04:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she doesn't want more from your relationship, redefine it.
But the real question is: How do YOU feel about her sharing all this information? Does it make you uncomfortable? If so, then YOU need to end the friendship.
2007-01-14 04:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sharpae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to respond to the question of "is this an affair?" is easy a million/ Does one significant different disguise issues from the different significant different? to that end - specific. 2/ Does the significant different experience entitled to have something that his/her significant different isn't allowed to be a factor of? lower back - specific. 3/ might the significant different do/say/act an analogous way with the different man or woman if the significant different replace into recent? No i don't think of he may be having those "very close talks" if he knew you have been attentive to them. So in essence they're having, or on the verge of, an affair. Now its as much as you. you could desire to enable him know you recognize, and tell him who that makes you experience. His first reaction will in all probability be protective "How dare you verify my private digital mail" Why does he choose the priviacy if there is not something to disguise? Then "its all on your head" and directly to "Its your fault as you do not make me experience - notwithstanding" How do i know this? Been there, executed that. What you do from there relies upon on too many components to circulate via right here. yet take care of you.
2016-10-07 03:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you take some time off from your ex lover. If this persists it will not be healthy for your marriage. You should set boundaries and limits. Now you are married and need to be totally committed to be faithful to your marriage.
2007-01-14 04:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
redefine--unless she is flirting--then cut it off-thats just not moral to sleep with a married person for any party involved-you or her
2007-01-14 04:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by amazing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would make me uncomfortable if my ex was to tell me things like that, and i wouldn't want my husband to email his ex, so what i wouldn't want him to do, i have the same curtesy for him and not do it.
2007-01-14 04:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got a girl for you her name is Sarah Torres
2007-01-14 04:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by sassy girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is ok just as long as she dosent try anything sexual with you you are fine
2007-01-14 04:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋