I got my periods on NOV 6 to NOV 12. I had sex wit my BF in the NOV last week. I didnt get periods in DEC 1st week. I thought its bcos of stress. I was in dubai in dec. Did a home test which was +ve. Then I came back to India. Did a diff home test which was -ve. Its almost 10 weeks now. There is no vomitting, nausea, tiredness, loss of appatite etc. I dont want a KID. What do I do?
Can I go for ABORTION?? is it safe in the 3rd month? plssssss HELP ME!!!
I got periods on NOV 06-NOV 10, didnt get DEC, and i thought i would get periods this week (JAN 1st week) and I didnt get. I missed my 2nd periods. What do i do?
IS it ok to go for abortion? I DONT WANT THE KID AT ANYCOST!! WHAT DO I DO? PLSSS SUGGEST!!!!
2007-01-14 04:13:05 · 20 answers · asked by varna s 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
pro abortionist will tell you yes go get an abortion, pro lifers will tell you not to. I am telling you that i had an abortion and although I was physically fine, there are emotional consequences later in life. Please consider adoption. There is no shame in giving a baby to a couple who can't have children. You can even opt for an open adoption so you always know where your baby is and keep in touch and have a relationship with that baby later when you are more mature, so you wouldn't have to worry about regrets. Just remember if you choose abortion you can't take it back and it may be something you regret, especially later if like when your daughter is faced with a similar problem.
2007-01-14 04:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by mamadana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is maybe. You could be pregnant without any signs of vomiting or feeling sick or you may not be and the missed periods are from the worrying you're doing about it. You know there's a chance for pregnancy if you don't use protection and even if you do. Why would you risk the life of your own unborn child because you didn't think first? Probably the most selfish and immature thing you could do. Make the right choice and if you are pregnant, have that little soul and adoption is a wonderful option. So is being a mom. Abortion is out of the question in my heart felt opinion. You will suffer the entire rest of your life with emotional issues if you abort that child. Often people say the emotional scars are worse than anything else...even having kept their baby. Misery is a for sure with abortion, pregnancy you'll at least have a chance for happiness!
2007-01-14 12:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it sounds like you are pregnant. And you should have made your mind up about your pregancy a long time ago, instead of waiting for symtoms. Many women do not have symtoms while being pregnant.
Anyway, since you are under twelve weeks you still can have an abortion which in non-surgical. After that, the abortion procedure is more complicated. In your case, an abortion is yur best bet since you dont weant to child. There is nothing in this world that is worst than being an unwanted child. Trust me, I know.
The child is at this stage just a fetus, a clump of cells. Not able to live outside the uterus. It does not jave nerve cells, it does not feel pain, etc. It is life, yes, but not a human. I would say: end it, and think again before you have unprotected sex.
2007-01-14 12:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by MM 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm pregnant at the min and am only 18,
but when i fell pregnant i went to street wise.
Which is a family clinic.They gave me the option to keep my baby but also went trhough abortions.
Depends where u live but u can go upto 4month now and u can still have and abortion,But the longer u leave it the harder it will get.R u 100% ur pregant coz it could also b a fake pregnancy which is cause by the chnage in ya food or even some times your periods could ov been muddled up and u might hav a period towards the end ov the month.
but the best advise i could give u is go to a family clinic centre and sit down and explain whts been goin to some one as the r medically trained.But dont think abortions r wrong abortions r dne everyday all around the world u know if ur ready or not.i hope this helps
2007-01-14 12:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lesa B 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is best that if you have missed 2 whole periods to get to a Dr as soon as possible. chances are that u are pregnant. i had 2 light periods with my first child. if you are wanting abortion you should go get a professional pregnancy test and talk to the testing Dr about where you could get a abortion done and if its too late. I'm not sure about India but i know that you cant be further than 12 weeks for an abortion so you need to move quickly before you are stuck with a child before you are ready. hope this helps.
2007-01-14 12:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by artriasmom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um.... let's not get an abortion, try adoption. There are many couples out in the world that cannot have children for a variety of reasons, and sometimes if you go to an adoption agency, the couple that wants your baby will pay for medical bills and stuff for the baby and will be there when you have it to take it home. Have you told your BF? Maybe he wants it. Just...don't abort the child, it's not the kid's fault it was created, and there's a couple out there that wants it.
2007-01-14 12:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by halijadesnape 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First thing, call a doctor. Get out the phone book and make an appointment at an OB/GNY, women's health clinic, or planned parenthood facility. Once the doctor confirms that you are indeed pregnant, he or she can discuss with you your options. You should make sure you learn everything you can about pregnancy, motherhood, abortions, and adoption before you make any decisions. Despite what anybody else wants to tell you, this is your body and YOUR choice, whatever it may be. Good luck; I hope all goes well. ***PLEASE*** call a doctor today.
2007-01-14 14:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lilith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you are going to have to see your doctor to make the arrangements for a abortion>>The first thing that you have to do is find out for sure that you are pregnant.If the test is poss you will need to see a doctor to arrange an abortion for you,But you must really think about this as this is not a easy decision to make.Talk to your parents and your BF for advice.
2007-01-14 12:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go to any clinic and ask if they offer pregnancy tests if they do take one to be more sure if you are. If you don't want the kid try to find any local family planning centers. If there are any ask the clinic or hospital if there is or where the nearest one is. If you find one ask about same day abortion. Try to go as soon as possible because if you don't then you will have to get a two day procedure and that is some-what painful. Good Luck!
2007-01-14 12:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Junior S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are pregnant, it sounds like you may be, and if, you are 3 months or over 12 weeks along, it is risky too to have an abortion. Go see your Dr. to confirm for sure if you are indeed pregnant. If you are, then you can start adoption proceedings. Only your Dr. can answer your questions for you. And, perhaps he/she can help you get started with the adoption proceedings or refer you to some one who can.
2007-01-14 12:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋