he is married for 20 years and sya's he can't take it anymore. jhe has no affection, no physical touching no intamacy and hardly no sex. These things have not ever really exsisted much in his relationship.
He is lost, scared, and says he is ready to snap. I have told him everything that I have to offer, but I feel he will do what he needs to in the end. I have told him to put his best foot forward to correct the problem and if he cnat he should move on. No-one should be abandoned in a relationship like that. W are suppose to support each other and have respect for each others dreams, wishes and desires, sont you think?
2007-01-14 03:58:26 · 4 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds a little to me like you would like to take his wife's place... These people have been married for 20 years, obviously there is something there - they need to communicate and get some help -see a marriage counsellor - you are not it.
2007-01-14 04:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by paloma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend has done everything he can to try and fix the problem,then it is best that he move on. Nobody should be miserable in a relationship,no matter how long they have been in it. The best thing you can do is just be there for him and listen when he needs you. He will have to make this decision on his own,in the end.Yes,I do believe we are supposed to support each other and respect each other.
2007-01-14 12:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you've told him to do everything possible to save his marriage, then that is all you can do.
2007-01-14 12:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
really i think its his choice. and they can probly work it out. anyways not everyone is going to be together forever. so leave it to them to work it out.
2007-01-14 12:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by cheyenne h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋