This question I ask is only regarding divorce.
I'm married, and if I was to ever get a divorce I wouldn't argue about who gets what, I would just try to get the hell out of the relationship, and never see my wifes face again.
Why do you women, try to get spousel support, and so forth? I couldn't believe hating someone to the point where I get a divorce, then come back begging for money through my lawyer. Shoot I want to hear from you money hungry women. If the guy you left is a jerk/loser why are you trying to get money out of the guy? It may hurt the guy a lot, but in my eyes it makes you look like a dependant. It's very sad actually.
2007-01-14 03:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by Allen S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
excuse me but not all women are money hungry women..
I left my now ex-husband with nothing more than my personal belongings, my clothing and few mementos from family.. I left him everything, the car which was in my name and I could have legaly taken and everything in the house that we acquired which i did have legal right to half of including his big screen tv.. when I filed for divorce I did not want anything from him.. no belongings i may have left and certainly not his money..
so not all women are money hungry witches when it comes to divorce and spousal support as to which everyone tells me he should have to pay me because I did nothing but take care of him and his house and raise our children for 20 yrs of my life but sorry I think I do have pride.. he can keep his money and his material things and shove them where the sun don't shine for all I care..
2007-01-14 04:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mouseling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh yea, i'm going to have to agree with the ladies on this one. Lets say your a housewife of lets say 15 years and have a few kids, and your husband cheats on you and leaves you. You are now left with nothing but the cold world; it is nice to have a little support from the man you supported for years.
2007-01-14 12:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's say the woman gave up her career to support you. maybe you have a job that moves you around the country every few years so she takes what job she can get, then moves with you so she can support your career. In this case, yes, she should be compensated.
The same is true if you have children and you both agree that she stays home with the children.
In both cases, she was unable to build a career of her own and she should be compensated, for a period of time, until she is able to take care of herself.
btw...the same goes if the man is the one staying home or relocating for his wifes job.
2007-01-14 12:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by katalah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to set thing's straight you can't blame the lady for this it's the law,and it's not about the money .think about it when you both took that vol for rich or for poor that was part of the package.I'm a divorce female and i didn't ask for spouse support,i just wanted to get it over with,you can look at this in a whole Lot's of ways.if the guy was abusive in the marriage,yes i agree that he should pay it to her.
2007-01-14 12:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by peered1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I just don´t get why so many women want spousal support . If there are no children involved; I don´t think the man should have to pay his ex a single penny
2007-01-14 12:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You arrogant prick!
You would leave, and not pay for your kids upkeep?
And what about all the time your wife has spent keeping you happy in a home, cooking, cleaning, raising the kids, while you have had all the opportunity for career advancement...
Get a lobotomy.
2007-01-14 12:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋