Sometimes its difficult not to ejaculate when horny, so how do you stay harder for longer?
2007-01-14 03:49:05 · 17 answers · asked by SteelJazz 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
dont think about ejaculating. once you feel you're about to, change positions or pull out
2007-01-14 03:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by endearingstar 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The time for getting orgasm is a physiological factor and since the sexual act is a wondrous one, we all would like to have a longer one. For that we can't change the duration and the only possible option is to stop the act before the ejaculation.
Anyway, that is a risky choice because the block of the discharge often causes a congestion (in the testicles) known as "blu balls" while in a short time, however, the ejaculative stimulus will come inevitably stronger than before.
Today a lot of young people suffer of early ejaculation and somebody just masturbate regularly to lower their arousal.
In future, for getting satisfactory relations they should have to find partners with low time of satisfaction only.
2007-01-14 04:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This requires concentration and practice. There are books on the topic and your partner can help too. Essentially you will be staying hard for an extended time period, perhaps over an hour. Your partner may achieve multiple orgasms before you, which is a benefit. These ideas are often "East Asia" in origin, so be looking for books on Taoist sexual methods.
There is also the idea of having an orgasm without ejaculating. This takes considerable practice. Of course, you are building up juices, so when you do ejaculate, watch out.
2007-01-14 04:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Blu 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Know the feeling!! Try masturbating once or twice before having sex (if you know you're likely to have it). You can also get different types of condoms which reduce sensitivity, and I've found that these help a bit.
2007-01-14 08:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Florio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to strengthen your "pc" muscle. With time and "practice" you will be able to 1) clench this muscle and stave off the ejaculation longer which will allow you to enjoy more sex and 2) over time be able to discern between the muscular ejaculation response and the orgasmic response, allowing you to possibly become multi orgasmic.
2007-01-14 04:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by roboboy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Masturbate more often or masturbate near the time you think you will have sex. You will last longer.
2007-01-14 05:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by socaliguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start doing multiplication tables when you are at an intense moment because you will have to concentrate on something else.
2007-01-14 03:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by justme 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well if you are like 15, this should be normal. But if you think about your mom with a plate of cookies that should take care of the problem.
2007-01-14 03:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by fifimsp1 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I knew someone once who used to drink a lot of water. said that works for him.
2007-01-14 03:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
all you have to do is when your about to slow down and it should stop then like 30 sec. later start again
2007-01-14 03:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋