Please help me here coz I think am being fooled..
2007-01-14 03:35:36 · 11 answers · asked by Heskey 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, ask to go to the doctor with her. If you go to the doctor and it's for an OB visit...not like an ear infection then you will know. After about 8 weeks or so she should go every 4 weeks, so plenty of oppertunity. You could also ask her to take another pregnancy test or to see the old one if she still has it. I know a lot of first time moms will save the test (usually if it came with a cap and then you either vaccum seal it or put it in a zip lock bag). She could easily be faking all the symptoms, so that wouldn't count for much. Good Luck!
2007-01-14 04:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you guys seem to get yourselves stuck with girls like this. A friend of mine is going through the same thing right now. I would suggest trying to take your girl out (if yall go partying or anything like that). if she drinks... it's easier to do this. Now if you are a smart guy you know that pregnant women aren't suppost to drink. Right? try to fool her... She should be going to the doctor. Ask to go with her. and she should be gaining weight in her belly too. Ultrasound should be coming up during her 12 - 16 weeks of being pregnant. I also suggest when you have sex YOU use pretection. B/c if she's like any other female these days... it could be a trap to get pregnant if she's not already... i wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-18 03:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her point blank what her deal is. Is she trying to get money from you or trap you? It's kinda hard to sneak up on someone with a pregnancy test. If you suspect that she's lying, then confront her with it and tell her you want her to take a test just to be sure. If she doesn't want to or seems hesitant, then she's probably lying.
Did she just tell you or has it been awhile? She would be due for her first prental visit around 8-10 weeks probably, so if that's coming up I would insist on going with her, telling her that if she's having your baby you want to be involved. If she doesn't want you to go, then you probably have your answer.
Good luck!
2007-01-14 03:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
test her... clinic or at home pregnancy test.
the things with at home pregnancy tests is that if she is early in the pregnancy then it wont detect the hormone.
but if she knows already she must have taken some sort of test already! right?
just go get a test and tell her you would like to see it for yourself. if she asks why just say because this is a serious thing and i want to double check, and tests can be wrong. what can one more test do? just ease your mind, which is probably what you need!!!. tell her to go to her gyno and make an appt. they will double check the pregnancy test there. and you can always go with her!!
good luck!
2007-01-14 03:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the only way to really find out if she is faking or not is to have her take a test rigth in front of you. In a couple of months you will know for sure though cuz her belly will grow, But go buy a pt test and have her take it in front of you. Do not give her any warning that you are going to by one, you should sneak it up on her so if she is faking she doesnt have someone elses urine.
2007-01-14 03:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait and see...eventually she will be at a point where she can't fake the pregnant look unless she gains a ton of weight---and being pregnant looks different than being fat. Or, if she says it's your child, make her go get a pregnancy test and show it to you immediately---make her go to the doctor and get a test (blood or urine) and make her show you the doctor's synopsis paper she'll get. Those are my suggestions.
2007-01-14 03:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctors with her.
She could have all kinds of reasons why a PT isn't coming out positive, but she wouldn't go to the doctor about a pregnancy unless she was pregnant!
2007-01-14 03:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask to go to the dr with her. She will have 1 visit per month up until like the 28th week then one every 2 weeks until the 36th week and then one a week. Also you could buy a test and tell her to pee on it.
2007-01-14 03:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, look for the noticeable signs, such as morning sickness, moodiness, and if shes showing then its for sure. have her take a pregnancy test in front of you and show it to you. but remember, not all pregnancy tests are 100% acurate.
2007-01-14 03:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by hotty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to avoid this problem is for you to wear protection if you do not want to be tricked or worried.Good luck.
2007-01-14 04:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋