My fights with my brother haven't :( . In my teens, I used to dream of the day when my brother and I would have a friendly relationship. But, that hasn't happened. The fights have CHANGED. We don't hit each other anymore( yep, he hit me and I TRIED to him back and failed.... he was always good at blocking).
They are also shorter and less immature, I guess. But, when will this end?!!
2007-01-14 03:34:45 · 20 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Me and mine did--and I am grateful for that--but I do not think we could ever live in the same home together.
2007-01-14 03:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had 3 brothers when i was living at home and they were older than me and i was the only girl and they would always beat me up. Well i learned to fight back and we use to get into some good fights. Thats why i'm so tough today because i had to fight with them all the time and protect myself. But it was fun, i kind of miss it i have no one to fight with now. But after we all moved out and got older we've become closer.
2007-01-14 03:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When all of you grow up! I have two older bros. I'm 25 yrs old and I just started getting along with one them. They are both older than me. It's funny, the older one is so immature that I'm beginning to think we will never have a relationship. But I'm gonna keep trying! I love them!
2007-01-14 03:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sibling rivilary is natural. My sister and I still fight but now that I know her "tricks", her "personality" and her "buttons" I try to be the bigger person and not let them get in the way.
She will say things to provoke me but I don't feed into them. Some people need drama, but if you don't want it, when you see it coming just duck.
Its hard being the bigger person, but believe me what goes around comes around and soon your brother will need you and realize that he was wrong.
And if he doesn't, it shouldn't matter: that's your brother.
2007-01-14 03:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by noodles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have to realize that what you are doing isn't productive and grow up.
Do you live in the same house? My fighting with my siblings ended when I moved out.
2007-01-14 03:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by purvislets 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems the older my 3 older siblings get the less we have in common they are several years older then I am & they seem to think I was treatred differently. I have been blame for my birth order to my name being better oh the crap.
You can pick your friends your nose but not your family!!!!
2007-01-14 05:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by LCee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My siblings and I are all adults and married now. We're too busy with our own lives to fight with one another so yes, one day, I'm sure it will end. Patience is a virtue my friend.
2007-01-14 03:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister and brother still fight and dislike one another as adults. I get along fine with both of them now! It depends on maturity not by age.
2007-01-14 03:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by robee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my biggest regrets in life is the way i treated my brother when i was a teen because now he is absolutly one of my most favorite people a true friend and someone to look up to and be proud of i would hang with him even if we werent related for sure ...not sure what changed it cept for time hope the same for you and yours someday
2007-01-14 03:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I'm 31, my brother is 28 and we still fight like crazy. The only difference is now he can kick my @ss.
2007-01-14 03:37:46 · answer #11 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋