I am tall and slim my teeth are ok no achne lots of people tell me am pretty.But a guy cant like me for who I am he likes me for my looks.What is my problem?
2007-01-14 03:30:54 · 17 answers · asked by ISABELLE 1 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
You are only 14 you! What's wrong with you?!! maybe the wrong is that you are considering some stuff too early
good luck sweetie when you reach a reasonable age you will meet dozens of guy whom can really understand you and love you for who you realy are :)
2007-01-14 05:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there is nothing wrong with you. You are beautiful in the inside and that's what it counts. Tall and slim is a good sign for a Supermodel. Guys at that age don't know how to appreciate a girl your age. When you hit 18-20, the guys that don't know a good thing will beg you for a date. Don't worry about it and guys will see the good quality in you. Stay positive and be patient.
2007-01-14 11:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're problem is you want someone to like you for something other that just your prettiness, but that is also a part of who you are. Yes, it is the surface, and it is true you will want someone to see the real you, but are you allowing the guys to see the inner you?
Don't blame the guys - of course they will be attracted to prettiness. Beauty is a gift of nature, people like to look at beautiful flowers, and a beutiful girl is an opening flower. Attraction is natural.
But now show your intelligence, you individuality, show what is unique about you. And if those guys aren't interested in that then you've need not be interested in them.
Wait a bit, be patient and you will find someone who is attracted to the beauty of your SOUL + BODY + MIND = they are all a part of you
2007-01-14 12:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Satya 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People tell you you're pretty , then you gotta embrace the fact that you are :
You seem pretty exiting describing the way you look. Since you like it that enough , why woudn't you want a guy to like you for the way you look.
It's a privellage girl , the way you look is something that gets
guys closer ; and as they get closer , they'll want to know who you are ; and as they know who you are , they'll like you for it
As for what's wrong with you , I don't even see the point in asking that question cause there couldn't be any answer to that : you just want to fit in and you're tall , youre slim ... your teeth are ok ..
why shouldn't you ?
2007-01-14 11:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear 14
Boys' brains work differently than girls -- they are about three years behind you in emotional maturity right now. It is really frustrating, but don't think it is a reflection on you... it really is that they just don't get it -- nothing you can do will change that.
Your only hope is to be patient and get busy doing things that interest you. At your age, it is really safer in every way I can think of to hang out with a group of kids who accept you for who you are, and do fun things. Soon, one or more of the boys in your group will show an interest in getting to know you better. Focus on the friendship.
2007-01-14 11:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
Don't worry. AT ALL! They are 14, they are supposed to be jerks! It's in the law hehe!
No seriously now, all boys that age are like this. I remember it from when I was your age. Be yourself and don't change, and believe me when you're old enough you'll find the love of your life who loves YOU for YOU!
Stop worrying. I've been there! I guess we all have! Now I'm 21, I'm in a relationship for over 4 years now and I couldn't be happier.
Wait, relax, enjoy! And love will hit you when it's time! :)
2007-01-14 11:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Stratomanssy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are 14 amd normal all girls go thru this. One day they will wake up and realize there is more to life than looks. Be patient. Dont be to hard on them its called hormones and there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. Niether is there anything wrong with the boys.
2007-01-14 13:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by chersgaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about this!!because you will not find an answer!!you can ask a not very good looking girl!!many girls in your age cannot attract guys!!i really feel pitty for them when u r saying this!!you should thank god for your beauty!!and leave here now to do your homework!!ok!!
2007-01-15 03:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a typical behavior for teenage boys, ( I should know I have 4 teenage sons )
Just be yourself and have fun being a teenager.
2007-01-14 11:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by wally c 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing i am 14 year too all teenagent fell the same felling i asked and i found this is normal connect me dodo_sie@yahoo.com and i am sure for what i am saying
2007-01-15 08:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by dodo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋