Should I allow him to please himself like this? Is it safe or will it lead to more? It seems like the likelyhood of someone being local would be slim. I would prefer he be honest and open about it than hide it. I guess I was a little arroused by when I did catch him seeing how arroused he made the other woman. Anyone else have a similar experience?
2007-01-14 02:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by gasaholic4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My guess is the "other women" were actually other guys. If you are aware of his behavior and don't see a problem with it, then who am I to judge - it is your marriage. If it gets you aroused, why don't you join him on cam and really give the guys a show (I mean "other women").
2007-01-14 02:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like you are 100% okay with this, so this is something that he shouldn't be doing anymore. It wouldn't be healthy for the relationship considering your reservations. I guess I don't really understand why he has the need to do this in the first place. If it is something that you agreed you would like to do as a couple, then it is perfectly fine and is not harmful, but considering that you are skeptical about it, this is obviously not something that you made plans about and agreed would be something that would enhance your sexual relationship. If he likes exhibitionist type activities, why don't you videotape yourselves in the bedroom or engage in activities in places where there is a risk of being "seen." That might give him the same pleasure as he does using the webcam but also involve you.
2007-01-14 11:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by simcrazee21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice would be to sit back and think about what makes you happy, do you think it's okay for him to do this? do you want him to do this? or would you rather he spent time with you telling you how wonderful you obviously are for even considering allowing him to do this!
Personaly I dont ever view cams an I am a 37 year old not married female. I would rather the real thing through love!
yes there will always be women bigger then you and slimer then you, but they wont be you.
best of luck!
2007-01-14 10:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do women enjoy watching this--many do. He is likely looking for some vindication that he is still sexually exciting---is this the a good way, No. He needs to hear it from you--- . if it sexually excites you--tell him. Heck, set up two computers and cam to each other. You need to start Communicating about what you like sexually again to each other----and leave other people out.
2007-01-14 10:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by redrepair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do women enjoy watching this? NO, unless your husband looks like Orlando Bloom or Brad Pitt
at least you enjoy watching that, so let him be an exhibitionist just for you.
anyway, yes it might lead to more.
2007-01-14 10:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Internet is a small world. If you don't mind the embarrassment of your friends and family seeing him on a web cam then go for it.
2007-01-14 10:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by InterNite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you allow your husband to sit naked in front of a webcam and let other women watch him pleasure himself???? What is wrong with you? This will only lead to him cheating on you. You need to put a stop to this...asap!!!!
2007-01-14 11:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to get a life.. He has you and he would prefer to expose himself on the web? A little immature if you ask me. What ever rocks your boat..
2007-01-14 10:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! This will lead to him wanting to have his audience in the same room with him. Tell him the only patron of his free shows should be YOU!
2007-01-14 10:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch this it can and will lead to him looking for others.
Even if they are not local he will go to them or they can go to him. He also could just find someone local off line.
Good Luck
2007-01-14 10:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋