2007-01-14 02:13:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nothing..i know friends are important, but that shouldnt stop you from seeing anyone that YOU love. any if you friend stops you from seeing your boyfriend, guess shes not really a friend
2007-01-14 02:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by la de da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at the end of the day you are the one going out with him, not them so it should not really matter what they think of him.
Ask them why they don't like him because there has to be a reason for it. If you cant sort it out after that then you will have to just keep your friends and boyfriend apart if you want to keep both of them in your life.
Your friends really should be more supportive though, unless your boyfriend is a total jerk that hurts you then maybe you should be listening to your friends.
Look at both sides of the story babe before you do anything drastic.
Good luck xxx
2007-01-14 02:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do.
It's not your fault.
Besides, it's not a requirement is it?
They don't have to like each other; not even spend time together.
So, when you're with your friends, enjoy, and when you're with your boyfriend same thing.
It would be nicer if everybody got on well, but...
Unless there's a specific reason for your friends not to accept your boyfriend? something he's supposed to have done?
If not, then just keep them apart and as your friends, they should respect your choice and mind their own business.x
2007-01-14 04:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why your friends don't like him. If their reasoning is because you are spending more time with your boyfriend than with them, you need to divide your time evenly between both parties. If they feel that he isn't treating you very well, you need to look closely at your relationship. If your friends are just being vicious, then they are not real friends and you don't need them. Always remember, boyfriends come and go but good friends are irreplaceable and can last a lifetime.
2007-01-14 02:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im speaking from experience all i can really say is when i was going through this the best thing for me to do was talk to her to see what her problem was and if she was a true friend she'd work out her issues because your happiness should matter much more than what ever problems she's having with him especially if they're rediculous reasons
2007-01-14 02:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Princez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your friends and have a chat about the problem.
Tell them why you think your boyfriend is right for you, and try to find out why they dont like him.
Your friends hopefully want the best for you, but ultimately its your choice who you want to be in a relationship with.
2007-01-14 02:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been there myself i sat my best mate down and explained how it was making me feel and she agreed that even tho she didn't like him she would be pleasant to him when we are all together it made the situation allot easier to deal with. As it turned out tho she was right about him being no good. Good luck.
2007-01-14 02:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends do not put conditions onto their friendship a true friend willstand by your side no matter what you do and if this is the TRUE LOVE of your life they will accept that and put up with it
2007-01-14 02:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by scottishmidget69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have good friends? or are they self-serving. If they genuinely care for you, and for your welfare, I'd ask myself what it is that they see in my boyfriend (or don't see) that I'm not aware of. If you can't figure it out, go to them and ask - see what their objections are. Seeing him will not cost you a friendship, but my view is that friends are infinitely more valuable than boyfriends. Boyfriends come and go. Friends can be for life.
2007-01-14 02:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are my friends and I appreciate that you care about me. This is the man i want, what is the problem with accepting this simple fact?
2007-01-14 02:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋