Is it the condition right now?
2007-01-14 01:51:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Those are my morals at the moment. Its shocking to see a large portion of my contemporaries having sex. Im 16 years old and many of my friends have done it with there boyfriends and i seem to be the only virgin. Its the norm nowadays. They always ask me 'What are u waiting for?'. The thing is im just not ready, 16 seems so young to be having sex. Thats just my opinion. Despite this, i also take into account todays a changing society and i guess if two people find love and are mature enough and have a strong connection on different levels ie. emotionally, spiritually and physically, i understand completely why they would choose to do it. No its definitely not the condition now and i dont think it will ever be again.
2007-01-14 02:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't a "holy" thing in my opinion.Making love is closer to being holy if you ask me. Sex is however a very "special" thing that shouldnot be taken lightly or given away freely. Sex has a way complicating a relationship. It doesnot make a relationship stronger or happier. If it is with someone that you feel you are completely comfortable and would like to offer this person the gift of your body, it can be a very intense and magnificent thing. But, it comes with many risks that are both physical and mental
I think it should be between two consenting adults that enter into it with all of their faculties( not the influence of drugs and alcohol).
Sex doesn't need to be done within the bonds of matrimony. It needs to be done in the context of love . It is very often done in the context of lust and their is a distinct difference between the two.
2007-01-14 02:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Richard T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is not holy. Sex is the act of spiritually and physically created a child. Sex is another form of human lust. It should only done after marriage. Things that are not actually full sex are not unholy after marriage. Things like cuddling and the like are still holy after marriage but the act of a sexual experience other than for the creating of a child is not holy.
2007-01-14 02:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not the condition of the general public - sad to say. But yes, sex should be in the confines of marriage, and with one person.
2007-01-14 01:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's a holy thing, but the Bible does say that sex outside of marriage is a sin.
2007-01-14 01:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i adore my God what he wants us happy eg abstinence until marriage is successful and happiness. God wants us to have only a partner for the rest of life forever.
Listen God and keep it then you will be happy forever.
my neighbor is married but he has many girlfriends. now all girlfriends got pregnant from him and also has HIV+. He and his wife also got HIV+ because of he is adultery.they are dead. Girlfriends are suffering because their kids has no father and are thin almost dead. their kids are also thin and has HIV+. that is very sad story because they refuse to listen the advice of God the bible said not sex until marriage is holy and happiness.
2007-01-14 02:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally disagree with everything in that sentence... i'm not an empty person, i believe in marriage, god and think sex can be a wonderful loving thing but i do not believe it's necessary to find your life long mate in order to have sex. enjoyment of sex should carry no guilt whatsoever
2007-01-14 01:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that with all my heart.
I never knew how much pain and loss could be had through sex sin. It truly leaves you with a lifetime of things to deal with. Not to mention the STD's AIDS and HepC. We are not meant to go from person to person. We are made for a monogamous lifestyle.
be blessed in Christ
2007-01-14 01:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by 2ndchhapteracts 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Even if it weren't about being holy, its dangerous to have many partners. Even if you believe in evolution, monogamous partners produce more well adjusted offspring. Its just good common sense.
2007-01-14 02:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i firmly believe in keeping pure until your are married.having sex outside of marriage is evil.and leads to STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
2007-01-14 01:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋