Why is it easier for a guy to walk away from a relationaship, for a woman?

Question

How is it that a some guys are able to rip your heart apart and can just walk away without it even barthering them?

Answer 1

What makes you think that it doesn't bother them...

Answer 2

Its because some men dont have a heart, but ive found the ones who walk away without a care are the ones who always get hurt in the end and remember what goes around comes around

Answer 3

Good Question!
Sooo true though!! Women show more feelings in a relationship and sometimes show a little too much feelings for this person!! Sometimes in the relationship the guy may not even like you and are just using you other times he could be trying to hold his feelings in because hes a,"MAN" and is too tough to show emotion! Women also tend to get really emotional even if its something simple!! Not all women but most!! Men just have their own ways of handling things!!

Answer 4

Some man and some woman find that or think that it will hurt less if that just walk away and not look back, but they both find out in the long run that it hurts just as much no matter how it is done. Heartache is never easy to get over.

Answer 5

Oh, I've walked away from relationships without appearing at all bothered and I'm not even sure I was. It's not just a guy thing. It's just that women are more trained to show their emotions while men are trained to have two basic emotions anger and more anger. It's a false reality we live in.

Answer 6

i'll tell u why..cause some women get too damn clingy and they feel as though they cant bloody well do without a man and go all weepy, like some snivelling bimbo just bcuz the man left them...some women give guys the bad habit..they allow the men to feel that they're God's gift to women....when that happens those guys feel they're "stunners" and can get any girl they like, so it's more easier to walk away when they are fed up of one woman and move on to another!!!--some women on the other hand cry and get depressed...they should be going out and enjoyin themselves with girlfriends--nothings wrong with being sad, but they must not let it devour them!!!--DONT B CLINGY!!

Answer 7

Every guy is different. Some would probably be just as torn but don't want to show it. Most guys come from families where the father has taught him that 'it is not manly to show your emotions and/or cry' and consequently that is what has been hammered into their minds. That seems to be par for the course on the whole. That has been what I've seen & heard most of the time!
Sucks, and it's wrong, but that seems to be how the world wants to operate.

Answer 8

Men are genetically programmed to seek quantity of partners before they seek the qualities of a single mate. It drives us women crazy but that's just the way it is. They may be "bothered" somewhat by the ending of a relationship, but they've also been trained not to wear their emotions on their sleeves.

We as women also tend to gravitate toward the alpha male or "bad boy". When we seek these guys out hoping to tame them or "make" them fall in love with us we're setting ourselves up for failure at the beginning and shouldn't be surprised when it doesn't work out.

Answer 9

actually it is not easy. being an *** hole, some times is the way to purposly keep the two of you apart, till all of that pain starts to go away.
Woman are equally as good, when ripping of hearts comes around. Just because the dude may be a good looking pretty boy, does not mean, that your cinderella fantisies are going to come true.

Answer 10

It hurts guys too, we just hide our emotions better.

And it depends on the exact situation. Guys will stay with a relationship past the point where they think it is going to work especially if there are kids. By the time it really falls apart we have often done our mourning and are to the angry stage.

Answer 11

he already has another woman, and has had for quite some time, unknown to his wife. he may have never loved his wife in the first place, and didn't want to be there with her anyway. he may have already done his grieving, or with some men, they stuff it deep inside, deny it, and won't feel it until later on. it bothers them, only u can't see it. they see what they feel is an opportunity to get ahead, and want to escape what doesn't work for them anymore. but it will bother him later on once his wife is gone, and once he sees what the other woman is really like, but than it will be too late, and the wife will never see it. they appear to not care, because they are protecting themselves, and don't want others to see how they really feel. bur walking away from someone, effects both people eventually, even the one who originally left.