When people ask me why I like guys I don't have anything clever or nice to say except the boring "I was born this way". What's a better answer...w/o being rude of course.
2007-01-14 00:56:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How about, why do you like girls? Do you really have to give them an explanation? I know why I like guys. I like a man, how a man is, tough and manly. For me girls are too 'nice' and soft. I like my husbands hands, how they are, well, manly. His deep voice. His bit of macho-ness. His hairy chest, and well, his penis. I couldn't be a lesbian or a bisexual, I need the real thing. A 'fake' just doesn't do it for me.
2007-01-14 01:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean a better answer? There is no better answer than the truth; "I was born this way!" That answer shouldn't be clever or nice... its just should come from within. Well, at least that's what I think...
2007-01-14 01:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Silver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself how you wish to be treated? Would you like to be shown encouragement? Do you want your shortcomings to be treated with tolerance and forgiveness? Do you desire to be shown love and acceptance? then treat others with the same attitude and consideration that you wish to be shown. the great effect that we have upon others by our behaviour the ability to make friends has nothing to do with how attractive, smart or successful you are. Once again, our attitudes and actions toward others are the measure by which they usually relate to us. Sometimes persons may have a low self-esteem or may be preoccupied with problems which may cause them to seem distant or unfriendly to others. Ironically, these persons may often feel that others don’t like them because they are somehow inferior or unacceptable in some way.
you are what you want to be is the only way you know. people tend to react to whatever attitude is projected toward them and the impression of coldness and unfriendliness’ is what causes others to keep their distance. be friendly, but don’t over impose yourself upon people. remember, what we sow is what we reap. If we sow rudeness and inconsiderate behavior, we will likewise reap the results. It is obvious that human behavior can be influenced by the impressionable behavior of others. this is something to remember whenever we encounter conflict in our relationships. the attitudes and behavior you sow can diffuse conflict.
2007-01-14 01:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by dandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can always answer it in a humerous way. Like this, Um I have no clue but if you find the answer will you let me know, as far back as I can remember I was born this way.
2007-01-14 10:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enable me initiate by announcing...NO i don't discover gay adult men interior the warmth of interest to be appealing. i think of adult men like women jointly simply by fact women are alluring and sensual and you definately have a greater advantageous danger of having 2 females to make it easier to connect the exciting as antagonistic to 2 adult men. So of direction adult men are going to love 2 females, with the possibility of bobbing up it 2 females and a million guy!! gay adult men are gay, no questions asked. plenty ( not ALL ) gay women can a minimum of perhaps be talked into letting a guy in. gay women use guy shaped "issues" to help shop issues occurring the mattress room, yet experience a greater advantageous connection to females simply by fact of sensitivity and communication themes adult men oftentimes have. gay adult men on the different hand do not use woman shaped issues interior the mattress room so rather have no use at fascinated in women, aside from a procuring pal or some thing. purely my opinion, take it or bypass away it!!
2016-10-19 23:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You name yourself gay lord?
And cannot come with an answer?
Good on you,very intelligent.
How about:I am not attracted to women in a sexual way?
Or?
I was attracted to men in a sexual way all my life.
Still not good enough?
How about:I was born this way?
Boring question:this must have been asked hundreds of times already!!!!!!!!!!!
Greetings:Rob.xxx
2007-01-14 01:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your "Boring" I was born this way, is the right answer.
2007-01-14 01:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kedar 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell them you like men, that you always have crushes on men and that you never spot women. Same to me, but than for women. And everybody seems to be ok with that answer
2007-01-14 03:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by frenzie-ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know buddy, I'm straight so haven't the slightest clue. Pity there's such few men in the world as it is with us women outnumbering you 5 to 1.
2007-01-14 01:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask them, "Why do you like women/men?" If they have an answer, most likely it is for the same or similar reason...
2007-01-14 01:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Think Therapy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋