how 2 stop boy for insulting me?

Question

all boy in my class like 2 insult me...i insult, scold back & tell teacher but they all still insult me...so... how 2 stop?

Answer 1

just ignore them

Answer 2

Try NOT to engage them when they send insults your way. Walk away. Pretend you don't hear. Ignore them completely. People tend to quit picking on people they can't get a reaction from. After trying this for two weeks. Every so often, compliment one of the boys about something. Say "you gave the teacher a great answer" or "That was a nice thing you did when you picked up so-and-so's pencil." Just give them a quick, quiet, compliment and then quickly walk away. See if this helps. What you're doing is taking your power back. You give it away when you react to their insults.

If this doesn't stop - then it's time to get your parents involved and the principal of the school involved. You have the right to be treated respectfully in a classroom.

Answer 3

Okay, so far you have done the right thing in telling the teacher. If the teacher will not do anything then go over the teachers head and tell the principle. Tell alot of teachers. But don't stoop to the boys levels either. Don't become like them and say mean or bad things back at them. They are looking for a reaction from you. You are giving it to them when ever you say something back to them. Here also is something you need to know. If they touch you at all and the teacher does nothing to stop this, go to the police or tell the teachers and principle that if something is not done about this problem, then you are going to the police. Also, get your parents involved. That is bullying. Alot of schools are supposed to have policies about that. Good luck and let me know how you do with this. I went through the same thing when I was in school.

Answer 4

Everything happens with a cause. Have u figured out any traces that lead to the unstoppable insults u have been given? Like.....have u threatened them in anyway before? Made painful, sarcastic jokes about them? or gossip about them? If u have done any of those, please cut it out. The worst thing is to insult them back!!!Responding same way as ur "enemies" do to you is always the last thing you would want to do. If someone kicks u, u kick him back, someone slap u, u slap him back, would u call urself civilized? If u have done nothing spiteful to them b4 and u react to their insults like that, u would just bring yourself down to their level. U cant change their mind(unless like Jack Nicholson in Once Flew Over the Cuckoo's nest where he got lobotomised) , otherwise, juz ignore them and after sometime they will lose interest in insulting u! Good luck.

Answer 5

They are insulting you to get a reaction out of you, and you have been falling into their trap. Ignore them. They are only words. It may take some time, but once they see you are not going to react, they will turn their attention to someone else. Of course, if they become physical, you must tell someone. It may very well be that the boys really like you. YUK!!!

Answer 6

Ignore them first. If you run and tell the teacher they are gonna continue because they know that it bothers you.
Are they insulting you because of your weight? Looks? etc..
Start improving their insults. Enimies tell you your down falls so take advantage of their insults. Your friends are not gonna tell you you are ugly they are not supose to. take a look at the girls these boys treat decent. Start improving your self by picking up some of all their traits then you will get their attention.

Answer 7

you truly won't be able to. The "boy" will take something as an insult if it has not something to do with you accepting him and liking him. Sorry to assert yet some adult adult males are truly that immature. tell him what you imagine of him in a magnificent well mannered way and if the precedence persists...reduce him off chilly turkey. No telephone, no P2P, no not something! i desire issues workout consultation for you. =)

Answer 8

Hard as it my be ignore it. By responding you only ad fuel to the flame and that is what they are looking for. Knowing it bothers you only gives them more ammo to throw at you. Chances are these boys may even like you want to talk to you but the only way they know how to get your attention is by being mean. On the other hand there are just mean people who enjoy causing other people pain to compensate for their own inadequacies*. Just be the bigger person and walk away.

Answer 9

Just ignore them, seriously it works cos when u insult them back they get the reaction they want : u being upset and agitated.
If u act like they don't even exist then they'll back off :)

Answer 10

Why did they insult you? Are you ugly, or not smart, What, How can we answer you if we don't no why they are insulting you! But anyway, there are many reasons!

1.) They like you
2.) They hate you for being nice and good at class
3.) They hate you for being ugly and weird or nerd
4.) They hate you just b/c they had nothing to do
5.) They hate you b/c they wanted to get your attention

Answer 11

Tell your parents that you are being harassed by boys in school. Make them call the principal. If the principal doesn't do anything call the school board. If the behavior continues, call the police. Tell them that you are being threatened in school and afraid of bodily harm. Schools hate it when the police get involved.