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(You'll need to read that to understand my situation)
Well yesterday, I got the courage to ask her if she was avoiding me ever since she figured me out, and then she got mad! She said that I was avoiding her, and it was true! Come to think of it, I was scared of her because she knew about me! Do I owe her an apology? How do I be more open?
2007-01-14 00:09:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Now that she knows itll be off your chest, it is hard to tell someone for the first time. Go to her and tell her that you are sorry for trying to avoid her. dont be scared of her, talk to her about your feelings about it all and work it out slowly. then oneday youll be able to tell your other friends/family that youre gay.
2007-01-14 00:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
SO he's all at once evil and could reason you injury simply by fact he could prefer to have intercourse with different adult men? Come on, get genuine. he's your appropriate buddy, acquaintances are significant and stressful to come back by. Yours is clearly a reliable buddy or he does not have felt comfortable telling you his sexual decision. Him being gay has not something to do with gay marriage; what's that remark approximately? Staying supportive of your buddy and retaining him as your buddy does not help something, it helps your friendship. be happy is he comfortable sufficient with you and cares sufficient approximately you that he would properly be rather truthful with you. don't be responsive to why your ideals could make you run away, never observed something interior the bible that proclaims you will desire to run removed from gays. it is a few preacher speaking.
2016-10-19 23:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do owe her an apology. Just tell her that your own insecurities kicked in and you're sorry that you hurt her.
And as suggested, give her a hug.
2007-01-14 02:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and be sincere
i'm sure she'd respond in the same way
don't avoid her
that would make her think that u don't consider her a friend and u don't trust her
veel succes!
2007-01-14 01:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Charlyssie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to her to begin with and explain why you did the way you did.
It will be OK again,once the air is cleared.
Rob.xxx
2007-01-14 04:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and give her a hug. Tell her that you really appreciate and value her true friendship.
2007-01-14 00:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by David G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just give her a big hug and tell her that your sorry for ignoring her
2007-01-14 00:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by Patches 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, 13 and gay. ur off to a rough start kid!
2007-01-14 23:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by TheDiciple 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋