Everyday all i do is flrit w/ guys i cant help it everyone thinks im a man stealer but im not and most o fthe guys i flirt w/ end up liking me cuzz they think i like them....what to do?
2007-01-13 23:46:35 · 15 answers · asked by The girl who needs help??!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, stop worrying what everyone else thinks! I've had the same problem in the past where you talk to a guy and seem interested in what they have to say so they think you fancy them! It's a thin line to tread between having fun and leading someone on. I think it's the stigma in society - I mean most of my mates are blokes, but if your best mate is a bloke, you're assumed to fancy each other. I think you should just go for it and be yourself! Just watch you're not flirting over the top - like being interested in what they have to say is fine, but leading them on is a different matter, so be careful.
Good luck though, don't change for others, and hopefully sometime you'll like one of these blokes back and it'll work out for the best ;)
2007-01-13 23:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by cheesemonkeymonkeycheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be aware of the way you are behaving around guys, if you are flirting then make the effort to stop.
2007-01-13 23:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit planting seeds of flirtations? Long as you plant you will reap what you sow. Picture how you would feel if a guy flirted with you (that you really liked) and it was all just a game to him.
2007-01-13 23:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop! guys don't care if you flirt but if you make them think they have a chance they will pretend to like you
2007-01-13 23:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by tired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 find som1 on the net flirtin wit them dosnt hurt any1 n soon u'l 4gt the rest...
2007-01-13 23:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by nitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stop, get a job in sales, i.e IT sales selling to men. You will make it big.
2007-01-13 23:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by fizz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry you will be OK,
i believe if you stop doing what you are doing then people will not look at you the same, its part of your personality that you cant change! and its cool
2007-01-13 23:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by mwa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on keeping on. It doesn't matter what others think of you, its what you think of yourself. If you don't see a problem than enjoy life.
2007-01-14 00:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by JP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young and like you think it's cute...keep doing it and you're going to run into the wrong situation, you'll learn your lesson then
2007-01-13 23:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is good.
2007-01-13 23:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋