2 Dr.s say nothings wrong. I am a virgin doctor didn't believe me because I masturbate ( I am 24) but took tests every two weeks anyways as recomended and I am 100% not pregnant (total waste of money). I am frustrated, and feel cheated. I have strange cramp like pains (feels like poking a bruse). I eat normally, take vitamins regularly, my health is goood, I am not stressed. I have gained weight, my boobs are growing, but I am getting black hairs on my chin, belly, and my eyebrows are bushier. Everything about my cycles feels normal except not getting a period. The months before this my periods had been black, painful, very thick, and clotted. Suddenly no period.
If doctors and tests won't tell me whats wrong I don't know what else to do. ADVICE, KNOWLEGE, LINKS NECESSARY.
On another note, I live in a large family, if were pregnant or on hormones/BCPpills I would be disowned by my father and mother, I need more options and opinions so they won't think incorrectly.
2007-01-13 22:36:41 · 10 answers · asked by Non-girly 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Know any techniques to trigger a period. Exercises( I am not big on exercises)? Foods? Massage? Herbs? Anything?
If I grow testicles I am going to be royally miffed LOL!
2007-01-13 22:42:19 · update #1
This period won't me MIA for ever will it? Will it eventually show up?
2007-01-13 23:03:58 · update #2
No my diet is normal, I am a little overweight but healthy. No I don't incert anything dirty, and I haven't had infection or rash ever.
2007-01-13 23:16:54 · update #3
OK you need to get a referral to a gynaecologist to rule out underlying medical problems.
The black hair growth leads me to ask have they done an ultrasound on your ovaries to check for cysts? That type of hair growth is a symptom of PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome). If you have symptoms such as irregular periods, weight gain, hair growth, poor skin (acne) among other symptoms you could very well be a PCOS sufferer.
A gynaecologist will investigate the problem because it is IMPORTANT it gets resolved. I had a doctor fobbed off my concern about missing periods for years. Solution...change doctors! Good luck.
2007-01-13 22:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by shredded_lettuce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, are you on a diet or have a low body weight? As that can affect your menstrual cycle. Secondly, you mention masturbation, have you at any time during masturbation inserted anything unwashed in yourself that could cause an infection inside your body? that includes your hand or fingers. If so you should see a doctor immediately! Thirdly have you had any illness or skin irritation since your last period? And last of all, I would be of the opinion that you need a complete internal examination to determine what is wrong with your monthly cycles. May I suggest you change your doctor for this examination! Twofold! your family wont find out! and a second opinion will be more thorough and help full to you! Good luck hon! And have a good day!
2007-01-13 23:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is gonna sound strange but how much chocolate or sugar do you eat? When you take birth control pills the last 7 days are sugar pills to bring on your period, if your not eating any sugar you may have a hard time getting a period not to metion stress can delay a period i once went a yr with no period and it was all stress related. the blackness of your last period well i usually get black in the first few days, that is called old blood and sually occurs when women use tampons.
If 2 doctors tell you they don't know then see 5 more if you have to until you get an answer.
2007-01-13 22:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor chick, this must be such a stress for you!
My only advice is keep going to different doctors until you get an answer you feel comfortable with. I don't know where you live, but if you have a good health system, just keep going and going until someone will listen because even if there is physically nothing wrong, your mind will never be at ease until you get answers.
I'm not 100% sure about it, but it might be worth checking your symptoms against what people with Endemitriosis (not sure on spelling sorry) suffer from.
Good luck, hope you get what you need!
2007-01-13 22:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by djtanybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very similar problem! I haven't had my period for two months and I'm also virgin who masturbates. I also get those cramp-like pains. I understand you completely because you probably feel somewhat scared that you might be pregnant, but on the otherhand its impossible and it just stresses you out even more. But I've heard that stress can really affect your period, so try not to get stressed because of this. good luck! =)
2007-01-19 15:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by rebelderox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a gynaecologist ,,, ask about endometriouses it can stop ur periods it has dif affect on dif women on some it makes them not stop bleeding also sounds like your hormones are all strange i would ask Dr to do test on these as that may give u an answer if your Dr wont listen find 1 that Will good luck p.s. if you grow testys you will make a stack of cash lol
2007-01-20 05:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your hormones are out of balance. Call an OB./GYN. You need to get tested for cysts. If you have them and they are untreated you could become infertile. If you wont take birth control, try taking linseed oil and omega 3, they are supposed to naturally increase estrogen. You can buy them anywhere you buy vitamins and natural herbs.
2007-01-13 22:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my friend had this problem and she went to a nutritionist not a doctor and as she was a vegetarian the nutritioinist told her to eat meat even though she did hav a good diet without meat it was still a good idea so she started eating meat and then a couple of months later her period came again and is now back on track and regular. . .
2007-01-13 22:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by always-live-life-to-the-fullest 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is so normal, because I didn't get my period for five months once, it got me scared, and i talked to my sister about it and she doesn't get hers till every three months, so no need to worry, unless you had intercourse any time
2007-01-21 09:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by smith_kallissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if 2 doctors dont know then how do you expect me to know, im not even a doctor...
2007-01-13 22:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋