she is jealous...she tells that i am coming in between their friendship(the 2 of my friends).........what should i do.....am i wrong....should i stop talking to her....what should i do???
2007-01-13 22:14:41 · 15 answers · asked by shreeya k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its very common among frnds to be possesive, u cant call it jealosy. try to sort out the matters by talking to both of dem
2007-01-14 03:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your friend mate! Talk to her and also let her know how you feel and also it would solve a lot of problems. If things dont go around properly, let your other friend know and then you would work out something that is mutual and not hurting anyone! Your friend only wants to be reassured right now as she thinks she is losing out. Make her feel important and she will respond positively. It just depends on how much you like your friends that you would do this for them.
2007-01-13 22:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by compu-illiterate~Yeah tats me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to divide your time equally between them. Also, meet both girls together and reassure both, that both their friendships are worth their weight in gold. Tell this girl, that jealousy will ruin any friendship she has and that the friendship you have between you should not be ruined in this way
2007-01-13 23:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually may she feel insecure.so,plz firstly talk to her and finding out problem and tell her that true fnds are very rare u cannt want too loose such agood frnd .i suget u that u donot stop talking to her .if u do so .than u loss ur frnd for ever.try too solve the problem every problem has its own sol
2007-01-14 03:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by kaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your jealous friend is selfish, but dont stop talking to her....instead tell her that you have room in your heart and life for her and many more people.
2007-01-13 22:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always said like 2 is company 3 is crowd...... this usually happens when there r 3 frnds try to find 1 more frnd so dat it can b four & then u'll can pair so no one is alone.
2007-01-14 13:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...well u r in a diffuclt situation...no doubts...anyways if both the females are just ur gud frnds and ntg beyond it then i think u shud go wid ur both the frnds...n one shudnt be jealous of the other as frndship is a very pious relationship...
whichevr frnd of urs is jealous of the other simply tell her dat the other frnd is also as gud a frnd as u r...so no points makin a issue abt it...
evn if her this behaviour continues then u r dat frnd is not worthy enuf who is unable to understand ur state of mind...
simply chill out wid ur frnds...
so....u r rite...n do wat u feel is rite...follow ur instict n stop thinkin wat others think abt u....
just enjoy each n evry moment of ur life
2007-01-13 22:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by shifali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe ...
just tell da girl to stop bein stupid nd actin like a child! tell her to grow up and dat u have no problem wit her hanggin around wit ye...but dat she wud wana star gettin us to da fact dat ur friends wit dem aswell!! nd if dat dosn work tell her to go sumwere else cz if she was a real friend she wud listen!
2007-01-14 02:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by kate m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just try to explain her but if she doesnt then you cant do anything and dont broke your friendship this will be wrong
2007-01-14 03:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by riti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal problem.once explain her ur problem.then too she feels jealous then u can search another friend because u have to friends those understand u.
2007-01-13 22:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by tejahappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋