My fiance or i say DEFACTO, cause were not married yet and we have a beautiful daughter. dont love me anymore because of what i did in the past. I HIT HER CHEATED ON HER she suffers for 4 yrs with that i only cheated once not many. the day she plans to go abroad to work she ask me to marry her but stupid me was the one saying IM NOT READY YET. the day i told her that she's sayin i cant blame her for everythin might happen... when she was there abroad workin for 3 months she found somebody that really catches her HEART. mature, all the traits she like was there on that guy. and three months past she came home. and told me she dont love me anymore. she stayed here in my house but their communication is constant... i can even hear her sayin I LOVE YOU to the guy. plz help what should i do to get her back i love her with all my heart i cant move, stand, cope up without her.. how am I going to get her back plz help me. she wants me to change of being mature and act like a real father.
2007-01-13 21:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by Lynbert L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she gave me a chance to change my immaturity and act like a real father. shes goin back to australia to work soon she told me to trust her and she waits for me.... Can i still trust her? she told me she wont see that guy anymore because the guy lives in far from her work. can i trust her with that? while shes still here in the philippines their communication is constant :( the chat play online games everyday. plzz help me i really dont know what to do
2007-01-13 21:42:45 · update #1
she gave me a chance to change my immaturity and act like a real father. shes goin back to australia to work soon she told me to trust her and she waits for me.... Can i still trust her? she told me she wont see that guy anymore because the guy lives in far from her work. can i trust her with that? while shes still here in the philippines their communication is constant :( the chat play online games everyday. plzz help me i really dont know what to do...
2007-01-13 21:44:07 · update #2
she gave me a chance to change my immaturity and act like a real father. shes goin back to australia to work soon she told me to trust her and she waits for me.... Can i still trust her? she told me she wont see that guy anymore because the guy lives in far from her work. can i trust her with that? while shes still here in the philippines their communication is constant :( the chat play online games everyday. plzz help me i really dont know what to do...
2007-01-13 21:45:22 · update #3
leave her be, take care of your kid and next woman, be good to her.. get some help too.. hitting a woman is unforgivable.
2007-01-13 22:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Man bro, damn forget about it, get a life, i mean 4 real, leave her. You hit her, and then you cheated on her. Even if you were to get back, she will really get you back, and that's what she is doing already, and she knows it hurts you, that's why she is doing it. Man once you cheat on a woman, what you are saying is that she has the right to get you back, you wont know when and where but she will get you back,and its going to hurt bad. The only thing I can say is let this romance sizzle out, which it will, because it sounds like she got with this fellow as an act of desperation, she need someone to lean on, and watch how this one Will play out.If you stay next to her , you will suffer a lot, especially when a woman knows what hurts you, she will use it over and over bro. And another thing, man you don't know anything about this guy, he might have AIDS or something, and all you are thinking about is love, yeah right. Man I wouldn't sleep with her anymore if I were you. And her head is not straight, but you really messed up, by hitting her, and cheating. Unless you are a multi-millionaire some women will look the the way about things, because they have something that will compensate for their hurt , and misery(IE) money.But you are not rich, and you need to get out before its too late.
2007-01-14 05:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by brandley_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have regain trust in each other.
That will take time. Why did you think so little of your relationship to hit her and cheat on her? Try to think of her as an equal partner in the relationship.
She might be needing to grow up, too, if she is a mother, her attention should be on her daughter and not on playing on the internet. Who watches the daughter while she is in constant contact with the other man? If it is you, then you are a better father than you think. Who watches the daughter while she travels?
You both need to set up rules and boundaries in your relationship. What is expected and what is off limits for the both of you.
If she keeps travelling around, she might not be ready to settle down.
You treated your fiance poorly, but if you have changed your ways, you might have a chance. If SHE is as mature as she wants you to be then you might have a chance.
Decide if SHE is really worth it!
Good Luck and take care of your daughters needs first.
CF
2007-01-14 05:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well looks like u lost her buddy just find away to move on and be a good dad to u kid and the next woman u meet coz u ****** up and deal with it
2007-01-14 05:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have a chance...learn a lesson here and you will be a better man in your next relationship..Be a great Dad !!
2007-01-14 05:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Frann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only want what you cannot have. Move on, she already has...
2007-01-14 05:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Spotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋