after they have cheated on you and did it work out.... you hear all the time once a cheater always a cheater but there must be someone out there that changed there way... and no i havent cheated on my wife and she has not cheated on me.
2007-01-13 20:51:11 · 10 answers · asked by hurts so good 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I gave my ex a second chance. And within a week he didn't even have the guts to tell me I had to just find out that after years of dating he was planning on leaving me for another girl. Later we were talking and he told me that my catchng him red handed didn't make any difference, he would have just found a sneekier way to get around me. However, my fieance informed me that eh cheated on his girlfriend before me, and I know for a fact that he has never even come close to cheating on me, in fact, he has been asking me to marry him since the third month we were together. I think, once a cheater, it is hard to break the habit until you find something you know you need to hold on to.
2007-01-13 21:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, twice.
The first time I was pretty young. I found out my girlfriend was having a sexual affair with her landlord. I politely dumped her. within a week she was apologetic and I took her back. Thinking back, I don't think the other relationship ever ended, not before ours did anyway.
Since then I have learned and believe that one a cheater, always a cheater. No one can change their ways.
My wife was married before. That relationship broke up after she had had one to many extrra marital affiars. She told me this in honesty and I accepted that. I was, and still am, quite in love with her. I know she has had several adventures since then. So long as she is descrete about it and honest with me I am OK with it. It's the dishonesty that can ruin a relationship.
2007-01-13 21:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by dodge_boy_333 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2nd chance after cheating? I would never give him 2nd chance, he would try to cheat again someday. A cheater always a cheater just like you said. If he loves you so much, he would never cheat
2007-01-13 20:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by stardust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I gave my first girlfriend a second chance...then a third chance, and in the end, I broke up with her. After that, I don't give second chances. Once the trust in broken, it's been polluted. So if you give chances, it's only prolonging the inevitable breakup because of that pollution. Not always, but 90% of the time.
2007-01-13 20:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres too many women accessible---- rather no would desire to provide a 2d danger. perhaps each now and then for some action...yet not something... he's in all danger been with like 3-4 females at this element considering you broke up
2016-10-19 23:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, first missus, think I played the game on getting home from work "guess who's been sleeping in my bed today?" Give her the benefit of the doubt more times than I could count. Eventually, I threw her out.
2007-01-13 21:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... I give my ex-bf chance before but in the end he still want to leave me because other girl. But i think everyone deserve a chance to change... ^^
2007-01-13 20:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Poopoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have given a 2nd chance to my ex-girlfriend. My friend has done this too.
In each case, it was a mistake. People don't change.
2007-01-13 20:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i dnt allow a second chance. if i do it will b like allowing the person taking me 4 GRANTED
2007-01-13 21:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Once she cheats, its over forever !@!!!
2007-01-13 20:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by Phillip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋