ok here is the scoop, today i was working and my gf text me saying that a guy that she knows what her to dump me and give him a second chance, thing is she loves me dearly and i know that and i trust her. but the fact the this guy keep asking her to end it with me, what should i do? she told him to stop talking to her but he thinks he still has a chance, so i took it into consideration to text this guy and tell him that its not going to happen. all he could say was dont worrie about it and we will see. so i know that she wont leave me but i was wondering if i should beat his A** or not? lil help would be great, just ur perspective is all im asking for.
2007-01-13 20:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by quikblue11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Babe! This is a ridiculous question! You know I love you with all my heart. He is in no way, shape, or form bothering me at all. I love you and only you and I want to and will spend the rest of my life with you; just like we have talked about. And our Hannah Elizabeth will be beautiful when we decide it is time to bring her into this world! I will never leave you, I've waited to long to find you! Your stuck with me! You are everything I could of ever dreamed! You make me so incredibly happy and I don't know what i would do if you weren't in my life! You are everything I am not, my other half. And without you I'm incomplete. I LOVE YOU BABY! AlWaYs & FoReVeR!
With ALL My Love,
Mrs. quikblue11
2007-01-13 21:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't beat him up. This is actually up to your gf if she really loves you or likes you a lot. 'love' may not mean the same to the both of you. She has to get rid of him and tell him look I love my bf and i dont think its a good idea for us to talk that much anymore. if he keeps texting, then she should get a new number. sometimes, actually no all the time girls love attention, and she wanted to be wanted. the other guy has a chance in case you two break up and thats why she hasnt told him off for good. i suggest to give it some more time and if he keeps it up follow my advice. beating him up wont solve anything and may make things worse. she should tell him get lost if he keeps being persistant and she can also just ask a police officer to call him once and tell him to stop calling. if she does this then he willl stop calling, and only takes one minute.good luck
2007-01-14 05:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Butter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. I think that she should be a grown woman and deal with the situation directly by harshly letting the guy know he has no chance. He wouldn't keep chasing her if she was very strong on her words to him about it. When girls don;t want you, they have they're ways of making you stop in your tracks and forget about approaching anymore.
If she's already done that, then if you BOTH feel it's necessary, stomp his teeth in. But it shouldn;t come down to that.
2007-01-14 04:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A face to face confrontation might not be a bad idea. Just to let this interloper know how serious you are about your significant other. I would hate to advocate violence, especially since I can understand the almost overwhelming temptation, but a person to person meeting might be enough to get the point across.
2007-01-14 04:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could beat his a## and maybe get an assault charge that could land you in jail, (giving him an even better chance if you are not around) or you could concentrate on her and be glad you have her. if your not worried about her leaving you, don't worry about him. Or you could hire out and get some outta town buddies to send him a clear message about how to be respectful!
2007-01-14 04:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by ATOM ANT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it all depend on ur gf, and for you, mayb u can only give her opinion and be patient.. and if the boy kept harashing u and her, i think mayb u can talk with him or face to face including ur gf there, choose one between two of u....
2007-01-14 05:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Poopoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion this guy is a dumbass....i think that fo now ignore the guy how long has he been doin this?.....just ingore him,,,if its only texts than he cant possibly do that much damage....if he starts to visit her than maybe you should just talk tot he guy tell him wats up and that you would appreciate it if he would stop bugging her.....depending on wat he says than you can make the decision to kick his *** or get a restraining order.....hope that helped
2007-01-14 04:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Gamerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get in a fight your girl might think you are a dumbass for fighting. Just prove to her how good you are for her.
2007-01-14 04:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is up for threesomes and you three go into a bedroom and you **** him in the ***
2007-01-14 04:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jason R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey baby, this is up to your girl to get rid of him and if she does not, I would get rid of her...good luck to you.
2007-01-14 04:41:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋