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wife for 7 years , 2 nice daughters with her now .

2007-01-13 19:48:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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There was obviously something about you two that made you want to marry her, you may not have the same affection for her as you use to, but you’ll never forget her, recent memories will eventually fade into the preoccupation of a new girl friend or wife. You probably won’t think about her like you did at first but divorce will bring out the bad side of a person. Look at the good side of her and how see is taking care of your daughters and talk to your daughters as much a possible without overdoing it. If you can be friends with your ex-wife it would be a good positive thing for your daughters to see. It’s a tough transition for both of you, but it can be done. It took me about three years before I realized my bitterness towards my ex-wife was not doing my daughter any good, so I became friends with her and nothing more. I figured that if my ex-wife were happy then my daughter would be happy. My oldest daughter got married last July, my ex-wife and her husband and their kids along with my wife and kids, all sat together for dinner and later my daughter hugged me and said “thanks Dad for all you’ve done and thanks for being friends with Mom, I love You, you’re the greatest”, and then I realized the time has past quickly and that decision I made 21 years ago was the right one. And one of the greatest feelings of all is knowing you did the right thing. Good Luck.

2007-01-13 20:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by D.B. Cooper 2 · 0 0

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2016-05-08 13:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

not quite sure, why would you forget her... See a doctor, get a check up. Sounds serious, forgetting someone that was part of your life for seven years. do you remember the daughters?

2007-01-13 19:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by brp_13 4 · 1 0

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2016-01-25 23:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Its such an individual thing. I dont think you will ever forget, but you will come to terms with it in time. Time is the only healer. I was married for 20 years, I eventually left him because of a lot of problems which are too long to mention. I was still in love with him when I left and I thought I could never love again. I thought I was destined to be on my own for the rest of my life. I kinda hid myself away for 5 years and got to know myself again. I went through a terrible depression during this time, but one day I said to myself...I am sick of living like this....I am going to do something about myself....so I decided to go buy myself a new wardrobe, start taking care of the way I looked, lost some weight, did a few courses and got a job. You go through varying stages, from love to hate, to feeling sorry for yourself and back again. There is no correct order in which a person grieves. While time is your only healer, you can play a major part in this process by not getting down too often, by doing things positive with your life.....do something different, something that you always wanted to do but never got around to it.....but most of all be kind to yourself and allow yourself to grieve...you will know when its time to pick yourself up, brush yourself off and start all over again. Love lost is something most of us have experienced in our life, and I dont think there would be many people who could say they felt the same for years on end. Nothing stays the same, it will change, but you have to be open to the possibility of new things happening in your life. At 50, I met the love of my life and have never been happier. My ex who I loved so deeply, and who I thought I would never stop loving, is just a memory....I dont hate him, I dont love him...I dont have any feelings for him whatsoever, so you see, it does happen, with time you will be able to stop loving your wife. You will move on to meet another woman or women you can love. But dont grieve for too long because the world could be passing you buy.

Its a terrible thing to have to go through, but you must if you are going to come out of this a stronger and more valuable person. You will find out a lot about yourself in this time you find yourself alone. It can be a wonderful learning experience, or it could be dreadful, but whatever this time brings, just know you will not feel like this forever. When you feel like not getting up of a morning, make yourself do it....because as every day passes you are getting closer to the time when you wont feel love for your ex wife, and that will be the time when you are ready to re-join life again.

You will get over her...I guarantee it, but you have to go through the normal processes first. You are hurt and that is natural...all your feelings are natural...go with the flow, then you will find that one day you wont feel that way anymore...time has a way of doing that, believe me.

2007-01-13 20:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 0 0

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