am i a bad person?

Question

Am i a bad person??
im gonna be honest about myself so please dont report me.

negative:
i only go out on one night stands, i have no problem picking up hookers, i love getting drunk, i like to pop the occasional painkillers, downers, cocaine and marijuana (but i never do these drugs frequenlty enough to biuld an addiction). i tend to go for girls who have no respect for themselves and are incredibly drunk. i party constantly, im a bartender. i love to go to vegas and gamble like crazy. i have also been involved in drug orgies(only 2).

positive:
im very deep, very into philosophy, spiritual but very from from religious, friendly, loyal, funny, every woman i have had a real relationship with i have remaind loving caring and faithful and treat her with respect and like a queen. i see the world for what it realy is and dont exist in denial or delusion. i cant stand any type of organized religion.

but what do you think of me? what kind of person am i?? am i messed up?

Answer 1

Well you really don't have to come here and ask what we think what matter is what you think you are. In my opinion you are just a regular guy that wants to have fun but when it comes to business you are serious.

Answer 2

I would say you are a very confused person. Seems like you are treating yourself with no respect, and have one night stands with "incredibly drunk" women, yet you have to affirm that you are still "very deep...spiritual...loyal", and so on. Yet, you are saying you don't exist in denial or delusion.
I would say you need to take a step back and look at what you are trying to accomplish by doing all these activities in such excess.

Partying occasionally is one thing, but "partying constantly" can quickly lead to a downward spiral.

I am going to assume that all this sex you are having is protected, and not give you the long lecture. I hope I am right. You still should be tested, it is always still possible to pick up something from one of these incredibly drunk women, or the hookers you pick up.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Hey I am you but without the heavy drug use. to be honest if you can't stay away from drugs you need stop partying. I have seen drugs destroy people who otherwise very successful. people makign $10,000 who still can't pay bills becuase they are to addicted to drugs. as fornot doing drugs frequently I would say just not do them at all but you need to a have a really good friend around to tell you when your out of controll in that state you will not know you are out of controll.

truthfully you sound like everyone else I met with the exception drug use and hookers but with most thats just about the belief that they can have any girl they want wich is never true.

Answer 4

The question of being a good or a bad person is relative to today's society. The true question is "Are you happy?". I think you stereotype yourself to much into the bad people group and this makes you to stay away from the good side of life- have a family, kids and so on. I went through the same stage in my life and I know the temptations you have when you're in a circle of friends like that. Getting away from the negative side of life involves trust in the positive things in life. Being a deep person got you were you are now. Be simple and overlook structure. Look at you're life more than others and learn from good people around you. Listen and learn. Don't be afraid to go to church. There are all kinds of people even worse than you. Everybody has their life story and their hurt in life. Get out of the dark. This is my advise.
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Answer 5

I think the positive one is what you want to be...as it is clearly stated in you post. Having one night stands, hey millions of guys do it, but it can be dangerous, no matter how careful you are you can get chicks pregnant and you can catch or pass on sexually transmitted diseases. Maybe you will get sick of the negative side after a while when you get older and start to settle down a bit. It's also not a good idea to get messed up with drugs.

I think you already know which side you need to stop.

Answer 6

I think that you're Joe S. Each person’s perspective and habits come from their history. Who you are today is a result of the situations that you were placed in, and the decisions you’ve made that have lead you to this very point. There is no such thing as a good or bad person because it will constantly change with perspective. You’ll find lots of people ready to pounce at you because their lifestyle and perspective happens to be totally different from yours. The question for the pouncer is, have you taken an inventory of your thoughts and who you are as Joe have? It is always easier for people to judge others when they have yet to understand themselves. Imagine everyone on this planet were the same person. You’re Joe S and that’s all you are. If there is something about yourself that you don’t like, you will change it. If your question is am I a bad person… My question to you is, are you who you want to be?

Answer 7

How old are you Joe S ?

If you're 40+ then I'd be having a few concerns my man !

If you're anything less than that, then you sound like a pretty normal fun loving sort of bloke looking to experience everything that life throws at him. Actually you sound very much like I thought I was when I was in my late twenties.

I'm now happily married in a stable relationship with a lovely lovely lady, and the only time I think about drugs is when I have a headache.

There is a time for everything - I've had mine, and it sounds like you're having yours now. Enjoy.......you're a long time dead as my Greek mate says.

Answer 8

You are not a bad person, you just make bad decisions but I'm not judging. I just know that some day all of this will come back to bite you on the *** and I think you know that too.
I think you're a free spirit and possibly a young one. Maybe you're just wanting to experience life in a different way from most others.

Answer 9

You are not a bad person you are just human. plenty of us explore and do what is considered taboo, but that does not make you a bad person. You are only human, we all have things which we do which are unacceptable to most, and living by others standards is an impossibility. As long as you do as you please without maliciously harming others and being honest with those who you choose to be in a relationship with about your views and what you have done there is absolutely no reason to call yourself a "bad" person, or say that the way you live your life is "bad".

Answer 10

if u were very convinced from what ur doing ,u wont ask this question?but now u did ,so u feel deep inside there is something wrong .who define bad or good?usually for some people when everything is allowed , nothing is bad,for others no,they have some disciplines we should follow..in ur question,u put negative and positive,thats means that ur not convinced on what ur doing ,if yes u wont put negative,that's means in ur unconscious its negatives and u dint like it in real ,u may do it just to feel ur different,or u want to let the others who ur with ,that ur like them.u dont have to be like anyone,be urself ,and do what u feel,cos i think Ur so smart to know what is the bad and what is the good.

Answer 11

from journey ive had both a good childhood a million-12 then when I became a teenager my dad and mom divorced and we struggled alot i might want to ought to assert it completely relies upon on how the guy see issues in his existence dealing with both i strayed off into undesirable issues drugs and what not yet now im an outstanding human being i discovered at the same time as suffering between precise and incorrect soooo i determined i wasnt going to be undesirable i replaced my conduct and issues..there is a few fact in what your saying yet commonly something might want to take position undesirable human beings come from solid and undesirable childhoods solid human beings come from solid and undesirable childhoods also it basically relies upon which way the baby makes a decision to flow. basically because i finished up there (undesirable tennage existence) i knew i wasnt going to stay there.