2007-01-13 19:09:02 · 13 answers · asked by adviceappreciated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes i am friends with all of my ex-s. While I was involved with them I loved them dearly. But I realized that the breakups happened for very good reasons and that a relationship could no longer be an option in the future. Once I had made that decision concretely the friendship was a piece of cake.
2007-01-13 19:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by lapyramid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the ex. One of my exes... well it seems like she knows more about myself than i do... she is one of my closest friends and usually the first person i turn to. But between then and now its taken alot of work.
After we broke up we didn't talk to eachother for about 6 months, and then we started calling eachother up sporadically. I'll always love her, and I know she will always love me. We just weren't right for each other at the time.
4 years later... she's now engaged to a great guy, and we talk every week. Because we live in different towns and have weird schedules now, we only get to see eachother about once a month. But just in case our lives don't end up the way we plan, we promised eachother that if we're still single at 40, we'd get married......
2007-01-13 19:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by blusunshyn3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily! i replaced into in a relationship (in love) with a guy who I later felt as only a buddy. We by no skill truly said being in effortless words pals, it in simple terms type of got here about. We stopped being sexually intimate and staying at one yet another's houses. Now, i go over to his position once later on, and we communicate on the phone continuously. Like I stated, we by no skill said this regardless of the reality that. we are good pals and care plenty about one yet another's health and friendship. it could be brilliant for you too. good success!
2016-11-23 17:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by goulette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible but not until you have both completely moved on. If one of yall has not moved on, then it will not work. And even when you do move on I think that it is a good idea if you two don't talk on a regular basis unless you have been invovled seriously with another person since that ex. But if she was your last serious girl friend then heck no until you move on.
2007-01-13 19:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by HHH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as far as we all think its fair enough to be friends with ur ex's but jus think for a second if ur in a relationship y to give a chance for something which can cause a prob sometime .
2007-01-13 19:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion...yes you can be. My daughters father is a great man NOW (hehe) I loved him once and I love him now in a totally different way 13 years later.
2007-01-13 21:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after you have had a close relationship with someone it is almost imposable to be friends with that person....Ya just look at em different.
2007-01-13 19:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bridget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I live this daily. Just friends... well......... depends how things end up. In my case since we are in contact for over 12 years it does become tempting but you should always respect each other.
2007-01-13 19:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by VC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible to have a relationship with people in your life on many different levels.
people change as they mature and age with life experiences.
2007-01-13 19:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people care about each other, even though they are not "in love" they can certainly be friends.
Just be smart and mature about how you react together ;-)
2007-01-13 19:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by littlekitty1985 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋