One of my great friends lives in London. He is not really my best friend, but i like him a LOT, or probably, i LOVE him. It's more intresting for me to chat with him than chatting with 5 naked chicks. My realtionship with him is so complicated. I know that he loves me as well, but we can't say that. I have told him for several times that i like u alot. He is always in my mind and i can't stop thinking about him. Eventhought, the last time we met was a year and a month ago.We dont express our feelings to each other precisely cuz that's kind of gay. Iam not gay. I DEEPLY HATE to have sex with another guy, can't even imagine it. But this case is diffrent. To be honest, sometimes i do have some sexual feelings about him. To be even more honest i kissed him when we were saying goodbye in the air port. Does it mean iam being gay? Should i stop talking to him(considering i don't want to be gay)?( I think the dummiest answers could be yes stop talking to him or try to think of him diffrently.)
2007-01-13 18:49:35 · 4 answers · asked by Mosi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
walk straight out of that closet so the rest of those skeletons can come out along with your s****y underwear YOU ARE GAY and being gay is an abomination to God
2007-01-13 19:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have to say, I have a great deal of suspicion about your question. You sound like a gay man setting up a scenerio. But if your question is in earnest let me say, what you don't want to hear is probably best for you. If your love goes beyond friendship then you have alienated your friend. If your love for your friend is strictly friendship then I would say trust that some day, as the years go by, you will be in a position to meet up with your friend and can renew your friendship. What I would wonder is why you seem so incomplete without him. Why can't you just live your life in the knowledge that some day you can renew a friendship. It seems a bit "needy" to me. Sorry but that is how it seems to me.
2007-01-14 03:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by sheepinarowboat 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I always say follow your heart, If you don't want to be gay then stop thinking about him so much and just talk mutually, but reading this I'm sorry you sound gay!! and there's nothing wrong with that, follow your heart and you'll know whats right!!
I hope for the best!!
2007-01-14 02:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by skanky 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
my babe there is no use saying you dont want to be gay, our heart doesnt choose who we love!, you might not feel sexual feelings for other guys but you do for him that is because of the feelings you have for him maybe its fate, youll never know until you try?.. why dont you try visiting him or visa versa, and try being together see what it feels like?!
oh and babe get the movie, me and you, watch it it is the same situation exept its a girl ! but watch it, it might help!
goodluck and i hope you find you find happiness together! whether as friends or something more!
2007-01-14 03:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by angelbum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋