I think you should have to chose ONE or the OTHER boys! Seriously, either your wife stays home, or she and you BOTH work and BOTH take care of the kids and BOTH do chores around the house.
2007-01-13 18:22:14 · 13 answers · asked by LaDyLuCk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men only do to women what they are allowed to do. Women can control the relationship. Not by force, by not violence, not by being mean and nasty, and vindictive, but by not allowing certain behaviors, and putting their feet down, and if necessary, walk away from the marriage. There is is no way a woman should be with a man who refuses to work, unless they decide that he will stay home and do all the housework, cook, clean, and take care of the kids, run errands. Otherwise, come on ladies, we run the show.
2007-01-13 18:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a perfect world, the man works outside the home, takes care of his kids, and helps with household chores. In the real world, women do it all! I agree with you that men should do both. It usually takes two salaries today to make ends meet and then sometimes they don't meet. With the wife and the husband both working, both should take part in the raising of the children and keeping the house clean. No where is it written that women do it all. If you allow this situation to continue, you will be miserably in a very short period of time.
Sit down and discuss this situation with your husband and make sure you are both reading from the same page of music!
2007-01-13 18:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by BoilBaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People shouldn't forget their origins. At the time of the first human pair, the couple violated God's one and only rule. The woman had been misled into thinking that if they violated the rule that they could actually be like God but instead they brought down problems for themselves. These problems are lasting still through today and will not be gone until Jesus' return and at that time of Jesus' return and the establishment of the Kingdom of God the good book says that there will be no greek nor jew, no male nor female distinctions between people. Up until that time, these problems will persist.
For the man, the problem at the beginning that he brought down on himself by violating the law was "you will eat your bread in the sweat of your brow" and for the woman, it was "your husband will dominate you". Muslim women just try to smile and to put up with the domination since it has been a woman's problem since these original days and nothing can be done to change it except to remain single.
So be like the muslims - accept the fact of the domination of the husbands and learn to work around it while waiting for Jesus to return and he will remove all these old rules. You remember he said he would be drinking wine new in that kindom of his father; and he said the little children are the most qualified to enter; and here's a note to that virgin girl in the other message was who was wondering about f*cking - the fornicators lose credits in heaven each time they fornicate and at the last day they may never make up for all these loses by good deeds. Even one act of illegal sexual intercourse could cause you to end up being excluded from a real good thing. Muslims say that comparing nowadays to the days of paradise coming up is like comparing a drop of water on the hand to the amount of water sitting in the oceans.
Note: The Koran also makes it perfectly clear that God does not cotten to fornication.
Therefore: The woman may work but she is not required to work, but the man IS required to work. Of course if the woman choses to work the man should be picking up the slack in keeping the homefront in good order, especially if he is not working; this is elementary fairness.
2007-01-13 19:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Peter A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m a student from Russia but was in America last summer and I see thet our cultures are different. In our country most women work (and their husbands work too of course) and at the same time they take care of their kids but men help them. I think it`s the best way, you should share everything what you need to do with your husband or wife. You need to do everything together and you`ll be very very very happy! And you`ll be a good example for your kids!
2007-01-13 18:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't expect my working wife to do everything. We are not all bad. I work a very long day and make a great living, but so does my wife, and just today, I did the dishes, vacuumed upstairs, changed the cat's litter and took out the garbage. Of course my wife is pregnant and cannot do to much anyway, but I have always helped out. WE ARE NOT ALL BAD!!!!
2007-01-13 18:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said it should be one or the other. Because it is to hard of a job and to much stress having to work and then come home and cook, clean, helps kids with school work, or so on.
2007-01-13 18:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same reason women want men to work and take care of their families.
The was a push for women's rights, correct?
There's no reason to complain about equality!
Women and men should decide together who does what in a relationship. And they usually do.
2007-01-13 18:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Joshua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is the sole breadwinner, he's being a wage slave and doing his part. If he offers to help around the house, you ladies should be grateful. It's only fair.
2016-04-29 23:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree,it does take two.working and keeping a house,but men dont see that
2007-01-13 18:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to have the cake and eat it too.
2007-01-13 18:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋