my sister has a boyfriend and my family doesnt know about it yet cuz she met him on myspace. he seems nice (they met in real life). my family doesnt really want her to have a boyfriend because they think she's too young. today was their 1month anniversary and it's 11 pm. she wont answer her cell either. and she lied about going to the library to study for finals. my stepmom is wondering where she is. she called all her friends but they dont know. should i tell my stepmom that she has a boyfriend and she's out with her boyfriend?
2007-01-13 18:11:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old is your friend???
Think about this. It's serious... a big problem..
But you shall decide by your own.
2007-01-13 18:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
Your question is very intricate. I think that in order to remove any suspicion from your stepmom's mind you must disclose this relationship to her. At the same time you must come to the rescue to your yonger sister by taking your mom into confidence that she has a b/f and they are very much ahead on this way. The guy is trustworthy and your younger sister is also in deep love with him. Such disclosure of reality will make the atmosphere very soft rather to keep reality away will further complicate the situation. You did not tell the age of your sister. If she is under age, I mean 14 or so, then you must be on her rescue as any physical meeting of your sister at this age will further complicate the situation.
2007-01-13 18:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to be a tattle tale...but on the other hand, some people can seem really nice at 1st, then later turn out with a mean streak. It might be wise to inform your stepmom, since she is concerned about your sister. If your sis gets mad, sorry. She's the one sneaking around behind their backs. But I'd hate for something to happen to her, and you could have helped to prevent it.
2007-01-13 18:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by StugglingwithZelda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sis is in the middle of a bad situation....i think you should make her come clean.. tell her that your parents were worried and that they were about to call 911 for help..... for all you guys know her boyfriend could be a sex predadtor
if you believe so i think you should tell your parents..... because even if she hates you for it now she'll thank you later..... keeping secrets like this is very bad and can probably cause depression because of always sneaking around...... tell her to come clean and face the conciquences.. family is family sum random dude on myspace is just a guy dont let that interfere in her life if you know what i mean im not trying to be harsh or anything but .... never date people and meet through myspace..... there a was a case last year that sumone met with a guy from myspace and the guy beat her and raped her and stuff..... i dont want that to happen to anyone even if i dont know then tell her to come clean but tell her in a way that she willl trust her say..."sis this isnt right everyone wus worried we thought he kidnapped you....come clean and mom and dad will understand.... we love you and we want the best for you please don't continue to sneak around or it will ride on youe conscience forever" that should get to her
2007-01-13 18:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by soccerboy_1243 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a mothers point of view, I would want to know where she was. I don't know how old your sister is but if they don't feel that she is old enough to date then she probably needs to know what is going on. Who's to say she won't bust you out about knowing this and not telling them. Not knowing where your child is at a late hour.......... that a parents worse fear because we do assume the worst thing possible.
2007-01-13 18:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she is in danger? If not, let her be. You position as a sister is to have her back. You neglected to tell us how young she is. If she's underage, insist on being there to double date or whatever. Don't sell her out, but watch her. You know her best. Is she ready to date? Take care of your sister!
2007-01-13 18:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! It's 11 and she still isn't home. Two things that can motivate you are that-
He might be some sicko perv!
They could be fogging up the windows in his car!
Tell!
2007-01-13 18:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother right away. Something terrible could happen to your sister and the sooner your mom finds her the better.
2007-01-13 18:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by alaskarose_1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her again and she doesnt pick up something could be wrong, thenthats when you tell your stepmom, if your sister get mad for this then u tell her it was for her safety, u guys were worried and something could have gone wrong.
2007-01-13 18:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait for your sis to come home and let her explain. You don't want to be caught in the middle. Keep that trust with your sis.
2007-01-13 18:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by caasi2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try finding her first before your stepmom knows....she might be in some danger......
2007-01-13 18:16:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋