I just moved to a big city last year for a job.
It's a great job and I love it.
My work place is made up of mostly men, and the few women who work there are married.
Most of my co-workers have their own friends, families, and lives. So I haven't made any friends at work... just acquaitances.
But without anyone to hang out with, I just sit at home every weekend by myself. Sometimes I go to work on the weekend anyway because I don't have anything better to do.
I have some hobbies that keep me busy, but that's not enough.
I can't meet women at work, and since I don't have any friends I can't go out with a group of buddies looking for single girls. I can not go to a bar or a club by myself to talk to women, it's just pathetic.
I want to make friends... guys or girls. I want to meet a woman, but how can I?
I'm so lonely for the past year. I'm relatively good looking, talented at multiple things, and fun to hang around with.
Why can't I meet anyone?
2007-01-13 18:08:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-01-13 18:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by engineergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello sometimes we tend to do that to our self's sometime we just do not want to socialize very much...but really the only way your gonna meet someone is if you go where there are people like church maybe or take a class at the college ...go to places where nice singles are ...I'm sure somewhere if you put yourself out there someone will notice ya take care maybe u are a bit on the shy side...dont worry and hey u dont need to go to bars or clubs those places arent the best place to meet a woman ask a friend from work if they know anyone that needs a friend maybe if you do someone will come up with a person that also needs a friend
2007-01-13 19:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved to San Diego about a year ago and I am in the same boat. I am very shy. I have made some friends at work, but I have yet to meet a guy to go out with. A couple of guys I work with have asked me, but I don't date coworkers. When you figure something out let me know k. I'm just glad to know that I am not the only one out that has no life outside of work. Someone is bound to call us both losers in a minute, you know that right?
2007-01-13 18:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre in a big city there must be clubs or organizations you can join. Ones where women would be at also. Sports, hobby clubs, support groups. Try taking a night class at a local community college, one you think women would take. Theres also volunteer work places where women would be. Check your paper for listings they are usually somewhere in there for club meetings and groups.
2007-01-13 18:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try joining some kind of a club or somethin..maybe a book club if you're interested in reading...or say weekend dance classes? That way you'll be doing somethin u like to do and might also find someone with similar interests. Good luck :)
2007-01-13 18:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to have a group or a friend to go out. You can do it alone and yet, get the attention of girls. In fact, i think it's better to go out alone, unless you need someone there to boost your confidence.
You need a life and you better start by planning on a special outing for yourself soon.
I am a lady who goes shopping on my own, I go to the hairdresser on my own, to the beauty salon on my own, yet, I have met blokes and I have a husband now. And still, doing those things alone.
Sometimes, being about to do things on your own is really good.
Go and give it a try!
Go! Go! Go!
You'll discover something new!
All the best!
2007-01-13 18:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Can't you meet anyone?? I think you are just discouraged! It happens to all of us.
I think a good place for you to start would be in a big church (You say you are in a big city..so I am sure there is a big church nearby. Ask one of your acquaintances where they go to church and ask if you can go with them....and then tell some people in that church what you have told us!!
It will happen.....just give it time.....Like that old saying...Rome was not built in a day......
2007-01-13 18:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will definitely find one if you are not impatience and stop staying home. Even going to a supermarket is possible to meet one too. Good luck.
2007-01-13 18:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure know how loneliness feels. If you'd like an online friend, feel free to email me. By the way, I am female.
2007-01-13 18:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to meet someone online that lives around your area!
2007-01-13 18:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a problem,
just open your self to the world and meet a lot of strangers to be your friends.
as you said you are good looking,
go out introduce yourself to the world,
be a man to face consequences.
you owe that to yourself.
2007-01-13 18:22:10 · answer #11 · answered by blehtin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋