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2007-01-13 18:06:24 · 24 answers · asked by Stel 1 3 in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

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Yes and no. I used to model and even though now I gave it up to finish college, girls have a huge problem with me. But I have lots of girl friends, and they like me when they know who I am, but girls clam up or will be downright rude or catty, so I have to try twice as hard to get them to let me have a chance. It's a catch-22 though. Through college, I never wore makeup and pulled my hair back and was treated more decently than the days when I had a presentation and had to look good, but that was just by girls. Whenever we had group projects, it was always guys who would offer first, and as much as you might think it's a good thing, lots of attention from ONLY guys gets really lonely really fast. Looking good has gotten me in VIP almost everywhere (I live in the Midwest so whoopdiedoo) and it will get doors opened for you, but it's not all that. It has gotten my butt kicked in a club before when some girl's boyfriend made a comment, it has gotten me excluded from sudy groups, and I have to try twice as hard at parties because it's weird when you're a super-outgoing person who loves people and girls won't give you a chance. Plus it's no better, because you get hit on by just as many weirdos as anyone else. Think about it this way: if you think you're more likely to get better service in a store or restaurant because you're beautiful, if you're a guy that's probably true b/c most guys aren't catty with each other, but if you're a girl, that is possibly true and normally if the employee is a guy. And all girls aren't catty, but there are enough insecure ones out there that sometimes you just want to bang your head against a wall and ask them not to exclude you, because you really do have to go above and beyond to prove that you're not a b****, that you're not out to get their boyfriend, whatever they may be assuming. It's what's on the inside, but you know that this world doesn't always pay attention to that. But being beautiful and being ordinary or even ugly all has pros and cons. I think it's how you make your look work for you. I know ordinary looking people who are totally gorgeous just because it's augmented by their personalities, and I know a lot of beautiful people who are so dull I don't know how they stay awake just being them. Truth is, no matter who you are you're going to be judged, but it's all about how you take what you have and make it work for you.

2007-01-13 18:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by babyshark2005 2 · 3 0

It depends by what you mean by "it" being easier. Making money? Finding love? Or everything? And do you mean the outside kind of beautiful? Many people also think that some person might be beautiful, while others might not. And I'm not talking about inside. Well maybe I'm thinking in this too much. To make it all simpler, yes, yes they do. Why? Becuase every single person could say that someone looks ugly. That's only because they can be beautiful.

2007-01-13 18:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by pinpinmoo 2 · 0 2

No, it depens on who it is. But an Ugly person can get away with a ot of things teh same way. Actually I think that "beautiful" people have it harder. Everybody looks at them a lot more, if they are with a guy/girl a lot then they are a h**/player or something like that. Or when people make exceptions for them, people think its only because they are cute. and 9 out of 10 times its only becaause someone was being nice, and not because of their looks.

2007-01-13 18:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

they have it easier in attracting people etc. but if you are beautiful at a young age and aren't careful about not focusing on the important stuff instead of the beautiful stuff, you are headed down a long hard road.

2007-01-13 18:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't think so at all. I've been on both ends of the deal on this one. I've switched schools a lot in my life, and sometimes I am the most gorgeous person there, and sometimes I'm DEFINETLY not. When i'm the gorgeous one, i love all the attention, but there is all this pressure to be flawless all the time and a lot of people really hate you. But when i'm the not so pretty one, i hate being like, kind of put off to the side, but i also love how i can basically do what i want and feel loved and not worry about being like, "Oh my gosh, will everyone hate me if i wear this?"

But i have to admit, being gorgeous IS fun...

2007-01-13 18:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by taycare.oh 2 · 1 1

In the short run,yes.!st impressions always counts. But if beautiful pple do not have nice personalities or abilities, it won't get any easier for them in the long run

2007-01-13 18:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jancy 2 · 0 0

i notice ignorant people treat beautiful people diffrently then ugly people. i dont think looks get any one farther in life. beautiful people have it easier when it comes to attraction and all.when it comes to love no one dont have it easy just because ur beautiful that dont mean u can be in a good relationship.beuatiful people are normal ppl they are not superior at all.

2007-01-13 18:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think so

Example, if 2 girls go for interview, both have degree, one is beautiful and another is plain jane, i think the choice to a male boss is most of the time if not always, the beautiful one!

Where do u think the term, front desk barbie come frm??

2007-01-13 18:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5 0

Its a horrible truth but yes they do. People don't usually make snap judgements about them as much as they make snap judgements about the, im-perfect. But that doesn't mean you should stop trying to get what you want because your not beautiful. What is beautiful anyway?

2007-01-13 18:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dane V 2 · 0 0

Beautiful people are human just like anyone else. Do they have it easier...absolutly not...maybe they have it easier to be noticed first, but that's about it in my opinion.

2007-01-13 18:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by cheri_anne 2 · 2 0

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