and how many of you here think that we should leave our love lives to fate?
2007-01-13 17:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not only fate will make your life complete...in the end it's always how you manage you and your partner's life together to make it last.
2007-01-13 18:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think God plans our destiny. I believe he throws curve balls at us all the time to choose our fate.Things like the birth of children & death r pre planned 4 us . What we may think will be a forever love such as a 1st marraige may not end up that way because God has a plan 4 us.I do believe he gives us the opportunity to choose our love kinda like a purpose of fate. He wants us to learn from that relationship if it does not work out.He is always teaching us a lesson so it could be fate when someone is brought into our lives. There may be reasons 4 another to enter our life that only he has the knowledge 4.The purpose may be 4 the birth of a child or a healing of a broken heart.It could be to guide us towards that question of {what is real love}.When a 2nd marriage has taken place in the act of true love within the heart, I believe this is fate ,a fate we choose. Maybe this is one of Gods curve balls.God had a plan.We will not know the answers untill we r long gone.There r rules in the bible 4 marriage and divorce. Strict guidelines to follow throughout the book.We choose our fate and those who we r to love however, they may not choose us.So many times this is why marriages & relationships do not work out.When we accomplish Gods will he will always give us the choice to make our own minds up,because he always has a plan.Fate Can b who we choose to go the distance with and destiny is where it will take us.The curve balls wll keep flying until God says U strike out. Destiny is forward,Fate can be left behind to follow the path we are destin to go.This is Gods will of forever love because when u have it - real love it does not die within the heart,but it can b misplaced 4 a time.Anger ,emotions of this earth can overshawdow it.That time could be the lifetime left on this earth but it is always within our hearts.Soulmates could just be another name 4 our fate, so I guess if u were married more than once you will have more than 1 soulmate.
2007-01-14 07:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think that ideas like fate and destiny are just made up so that people can further down the path of not taking personal responsibility. While, I love my partner and feel as if we are perfect for eachother, I do not believe that it was fate or that we are soulmates in any literal sense of the word. I think that each person has many people they can be compatible (and think is their soulmate) with and meeting one of those people isn't really that hard. If I hadn't met my lover, I may have met someone else and spent my life with him instead and been just as happy. People chose their lovers. It's not fate.
2007-01-14 02:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people should sit at home all the time wondering why they can't find someone. You do have to get out there and get involved in life. You can always ask, well if I hadn't gone there I wouldn't have met him/her, I guess you can call that fate. I call it chance. If I had gone to X university instead of Y university I would never have met my husband, and would very likely be married to someone else right now and be just as happy. To me, fate means it was meant to be.
2007-01-14 02:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by afbrat65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't clearly get the question, I thought love was found by intervention of fate or because of destiny.
I believe in fate and destiny and all that crap because I found my soulmate and love of my life like that.
But I can't be with him because I have a life with someone else...so I cant leave my life for love
I hope I helped you
2007-01-14 01:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but sometimes fate comes to knock and you don't answer. Lets say you meet Mr. or Mrs. wonderful, but that person lives far away, if you never took the opportunity to give them a chance merely because they live so far away, you just told fate no thanks. Fate gives you the opportunities, but you ultimately make the decisions.
2007-01-14 01:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything in life is all about fate and what is in God's plan.
2007-01-14 01:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What we think, is what we become. We move the Universe with our will, it does not move us..... you are your fate.
2007-01-14 02:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Apollonia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, my life is ruled by my decisions.
2007-01-14 02:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋