I am a virgin and plan on staying that way until i am married but, i have tried fingering myself because i have heard it feels good but i personally didnt enjoy it. i cant seem to reach and orgasm...i think this may be why i dont enjoy it. how can i get one?
2007-01-13 17:35:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi Ambi,
First of all be relaxed. Find a time and place where you won't be disturbed..
Concentrate on your clitoris, not so much on your vagina (at least at first). Just stroke lightly and gently at first, and keep going for ages. Think about what you might like someone to do to you...just something that turns you on I guess. I like to think of guy going down on me (or a girl sometimes), or maybe about to enter me or something...
Another option is to find something to stmulate yourself with. You could buy a vibrator and hold it against yourself (once again, I find that clitoral stimulation is best, but you might be different), either your clitoris, your vagina or even up against your *** if it feels nice while you stroke your clitoris.
I hope this helps! You can still enjoy sex without reaching orgasm, so try not to worry too much.
2007-01-14 00:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clitoral stimulation will need to be used in order to achieve orgasm. If you are unaware of what your clitoris is, review an anatomy book. You'll notice it's a little ball- like notch, just above the vaginal canal. Some women rub this spot very rapidly, and eventually achieve orgasm.
Cory, RN
2007-01-13 17:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cory, RN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife, like most other women, can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. When we have sex, I enter from behind, while I reach around to the front of her to rub the clitoris.
2016-05-23 23:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by relaxing on yur bed and rub yur body with an oil along with maybe if preferred sum kind of music playin softly that yu feel is romantic and think of a hot young man yu would like too take yu and say like ravage yu in hot steamy sex while doing this start rubbing yurself in yur sweet spot the clitoris and while doin so rub yur breasts and give a easy pinch to them /nipples/ and rub easy but firmly to yur clitoris and when yu start feeling really good ease yur finger inside yur vagina and go up to yur g-spot with yur finger on it rub yur clitoris the g-spot is usally locatedfd right behind yur clit' and work that area while purging yur finger in yu and surely yu will cummmmm....delmcclamma@yahoo.com
2007-01-13 17:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by ~~DEVASIOUS~~Biotches' get i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be strange the first couple of times. Just relax and move you fingers around to explore yourself.
2007-01-13 18:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax dont try to force it rub your clit it is the little nub bump bear the top of your viginia
2007-01-13 17:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some visual stimulation , perhaps some lubricant also .
2007-01-13 17:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit on a water jet
you'll forget all about keeping your virginity
2007-01-13 17:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the, come here finger tenque lol
dont ask
just do
2007-01-13 17:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by grlnxtdor247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your man talk to you as you are touching yourself. Kiss you & touch you.
2007-01-13 17:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋