Men- would you date a girl who loved you and would do whatever you wanted her to do?

Question

BUT you had to pay for everything and still treat her with respect? like not cheat on her and stuff.

OR would you prefer a girl with a JOB and who pays 50=50 for things, and of course doesn't always do what you want her to do.

Answer 1

A woman who didn't love me would never be more than an object I used and discarded as I saw fit. I have very few rules, but any woman who chooses not to obey them is going to be shown the door pretty quick.

Also, a woman who wants me to pay for everything is a very clear and reliable warning sign that something is really wrong with her. Don't get me wrong. I'm rich. I hardly expect most women to pay equally with me in most things, especially when I want to do things that cost alot of money to do. However, I'm nobody's meal ticket. Because of the nature of what I do for a living, if I was married, it would be just fine if the woman didn't work. In fact, I'd prefer it because there are certain things having to do with raising kids that women are just better at than men and I would prefer she focussed on that.

The respect thing is a completely separate issue. I simply do not allow women to hang around in any capacity who do not respect themselves and expect others to respect them. If you are a loser and encourage others to treat you as such, I don't want to know you. I simply can't be bothered to kick someone's *** every 5 minutes because you invited them to treat you like crap and then they did.

This also has nothing to do with who I choose to put my penis into. To be blunt. Unless I put a ring on your finger, I can and will screw whomever I want. And if you don't like it, that is just too bad. Monogamy is earned and it's only appropriate for a woman who will eventually become my wife and have my children. Once that happens, monogamy is permanent. However, that is not going to ever happen unless/until you SHOW me you are marriage material. Damn few women are. If you can't/won't do this, then it's pointless for me to invest everything or even anything in you. You might be my girlfriend. But there is a HUGE difference between being just a girlfriend, here today and gone tomorrow than being a fiance and then wife. Monogamy in dating is something a man who can't easily get women, do to try and get her to stay. With me, it's you who have to convince me to stay. I'm looking for something specific, rare and valuable in a woman. Once I find it, that's it, no more for anyone else. But, until that happens, the goal is finding it. And being exclusive with one woman who isn't that does nothing but get in the way. And I know damn well that will make you more, not less interested in me. And if it doesn't, well, I'm just killing time until I find what I'm looking for. I like you. I care about you. I respect you. But, you don't own me.

Answer 2

well, i don't want her to be completly under my power. i'd treat her with respect whether she had a job or whatever, and i would pay for everything unless she said she wanted to cover it. Let her have her own free mind i say.

Answer 3

um i would not cheat on my gf first of all, and I treat her with respect. I go with B but she has to know also that I'm not gonna do everything she wants me to do.

Answer 4

Niether, I like a women with a little attitude but still a" Woman".

Answer 5

Yes, I'd go for the girl who did whatever I wanted.