sometimes i feel like everyone is against me, like every one rechases me, but in my toughs, i say, i just wana be who i am and not being like them cuz thats like a wana be, but then, its so hard to keep beeing me and i feel like i should try being like them, and then i go like crazy trying to figure out if i should just be like them, just so ican fit in, keep being me and keep feeling rechased, or get to be who i was before, then i think, none of them are ok, and i think it would be better making a new person, but then i dont know what i want
2007-01-13 17:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by jose r 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Everyone feels that way at least once in their life. You are not alone. The most important thing is just to be yourself. You should never change who you are just to "fit" in with a crowd. If they don't like the person you are then they are not really your friends especially if they are trying to get you to do drugs. Remember that the decisions that you make now are going to affect you for the rest of your life. If you are having trouble finding people that are like you, try joining clubs or sports that interest you.
2007-01-13 17:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by sarah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. Living in LA I see a lot of contrived people who only care about getting the next new thing that's "in". I've learned I just have to be myself, no matter what people say. I only have 2 and a half more years of high school before I get to leave it all behind and go to college somewhere far, far away.
2007-01-14 01:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a step back. re-evaluate your situation. sometimes, you got to consider the perspective of the others involved without forgetting your own thoughts. it's not that everyone is really against you. sometimes, you just need a compromise. it's important to be true to yourself but a little consideration for what others have to say could really help. running away isn't really going to solve your problems. you just get a pile of problems and eventually, that pile would come back for you to face - only with a greater maginitude. take things one step at a time. you'll get through eventually.
2007-01-14 01:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by changing_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hide in the bed, pull up the covers, ignore the door and the phone.
2007-01-14 01:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just close the door and work by myself. You'll have plenty of time to think things over by yourself.
2007-01-14 01:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋