I wrote a personal letter to a friend about how she was living her life and she showed it to other people. It really hurt my feelings that she did that. The letter was about her life and how she is not taking people's advice. How she is lying and not telling the truth about anything. She is a Christian but she does not act like it.
Anyways, all that a side. I told her that I did not want to be in her wedding because she showed everybody (but her family) the letter I wrote too her and her family. Should I reconsider not being if the wedding...if there is a wedding?
2007-01-13 16:49:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She needs to win your friendship back. The fact that you're even feeling guilty about not being in the wedding is a sign that you're loyal. What has she done for you lately?
2007-01-13 16:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have shown it to other people because it hit her where it hurts. She probably wanted other peoples advice. If she has a wedding she may not ask you to be in it anyway. Just go with the flow and give her some time, if she is a true friend she will come around. If she does not come around then she wasn't a friend in the first place and you don't need her.
2007-01-14 00:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do understand how you feel, I guess in a way you did the right thing. Myself I have a friend lady who she's a christian, and brief: few days ago, she was suppose to help and solve a problem and she give her word that I can have a her support at 100%. Well yesterday I found out she decided it not to do it, and she won't help me. So she broke a promise, and lying. So she just lost a good friend (me), and if it happen she'll need help near the further I won't be there. So as my recent experience I had to move on. Good luck.
2007-01-14 06:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jo-Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she is not your friend, if she is lying etc. and a hypocrit, why would you want to be in her wedding? You hurt her feelings by writing the letter, she hurt yours by showing it around. End of friendship when the game is who can hurt who more.
2007-01-14 00:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on which decision do you feel more comfortable. going to the wedding or not going to the wedding?
2007-01-14 00:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is ur friend if u think she is wrong make her realise of that & go to her wedding.
2007-01-14 01:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's truly your friend, talk to her in person. If not, then wish her the best of luck.
2007-01-14 00:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by howardlee1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that most religious people are hipocrates so why care
2007-01-14 00:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by charles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's low to show it around.
2007-01-14 00:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but why not talk in person and she doesnt value your friendship at all
2007-01-14 00:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋