i have been BEST friends with this girl since the 6th grade. Yea im only in 8th grade but i feel as tho im SOOO close to her and that i dont wanna lose her. but the thing is, i screwed up and i REALLY want to get her back but this is te second time i screwed up. basically i ditched her once and i promised that she meant so much but i was stupid and i ditched her again. i need her as my friend again because i feel lost without her. how do i get her bak as my friend??
2007-01-13 16:39:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok, i didnt ask to b criticised... yes i kno i was a terrible friend and im beating myself up about it, truely i am. i got no sleep and i cant concentrate.. i feel terrible and i do want to make a change... i kno i did something wrong so stop making me feel worse about something i already kno
2007-01-13 17:08:21 · update #1
All you can do is try to improve your karma and be a good person and also stop ditching your friend honestly i wouldnt talk to you anymore
2007-01-13 16:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by weezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. You obviously don't deserve such a good friend. She'd be stupid to take you back because you've already ditched her twice, who's to say you won't do it again? You can't make someone be your friend. If you feel so lost without her, why did you just ditch her? Not once, but two times.
2007-01-14 00:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Elena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with the first answerer. Learn your lessons and turn over a new leaf. You can give it a rest and for the time being, don't ever pester or look for her cos it will only make you look like a burden to her. See how things go after a few weeks or days(if things get well pretty fast) then start to talk to her again. Best of luck.
2007-01-14 00:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Clemence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm going to be honest, you don't deserve her as a friend. It is obvious that you don't respect her, since you ditched her twice. That sure shows that she means a lot to you. She'd be pretty stupid to take you back as a friend, you're just going to ditch her again.
2007-01-14 00:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever hear the phrase "actions speak louder than words"?
Well, your actions basically told her the opposite of what you said - I would suggest you talk to her and let her know that you would like an opportunity to show her that you really value the friendship - but only if you mean it - that means, showing some respect and treating her the way you would want to be treated.
2007-01-14 00:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Elke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW ADMIT IT!!!!!! you slept with her boyfriend twice.....didnt you????
2007-01-14 00:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by snwman1957 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on!
2007-01-14 01:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Cradle of Confusion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋