I asked my BF what he wanted out of our relationship because he has been acting kinda strange. He said that he didnt know anymore. He said anymore because at one point we here talking about marriage. Then I asked him What attracted him to me and he told me that it was the fact that i have a kid and the fact that i am younger then him but there was nothing else he could tell me and it was like a slap in the face. This is something that is really bothering me so i would really like some good advice.
2007-01-13 16:30:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jelly bean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
geesh! it sounds like he is done with the relationship but does not want to hurt you by breaking up with you. i would probably tell him that i needed to take a break from him until he could really decide what he wanted out of the relationship. i am a single mom and dating is hard when kids are involved. especially if the bf has been around awhile and the kids have become attached. hang in there.
2007-01-13 16:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Flowerchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him tell him what you felt when he told you that. You need to let him know. If you want something more you guys need to learn how to communicate with one another or else there will be no next step. Ii after your confrontation with him he is still the same don't tell yourself that if you stay longer with him he'll come around. You need to tell to show you "some lovin' or get the steppin'". Maybe he's not the one for you . In other to find your soul mate you need to close the door of the relationship you have with this boyfriend of yours if he is how you say he is, and then find your man. You need to look for a relationship that will be good for your child and YOU especially YOU. You have to close a door in order to open a new one, and maybe just maybe something better is behind it.
Good luck ! and i hope my advice will b helpful to your current situation.
2007-01-14 00:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that it is just him being a male. They are hopeless at expressing their feelings! He may have initially been attracted to you because he wanted to protect you - because you have a kid and are younger than him.
I would gently probe him for more information and seriously consider some mediation/counselling if you want to have help getting more information out of him. He needs to share his feelings or you will get all eaten-up inside and start pulling away from the relationship with or without reason to.
Good luck and blessed be.
2007-01-14 00:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Catty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good for nothing guy. I would drop him asap because he obviously is not appreciating your good qualities and you deserve a guy who is head over heels in love with you and can give you a million reasons why he is attracted to you...not weird shallow ones like the ones he gave you!! You deserve better, girl!
2007-01-14 00:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him since the 2 of you have nothing in common, there's nothing to build a relationship on. Then tell him goodby.
2007-01-14 00:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This BOY seems a bit shallow and immature. Time to kick him to the curb and look for a MAN.
2007-01-14 00:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really sound like he want out of the realtionship and he trying
not to be cold but that what it look like. so you need to take it
for what it is and try to move on, the longer you stay in this
the harder it will get for you.
2007-01-14 01:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for a way out of the relationship . Be careful and don't let him hurt you .
2007-01-14 00:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋