i have known my friend for 11 years, and we have been best friends. we would always go over each others houses, and hang out and do stuff together. we still do, and are very close to this day. over the past about two years, i have been starting to want more than a friendship relationship with him. he never talks about girls with me, or mentions anything about wanting to have sex with one. we would wrestle and throw pillows at each other and he smiles and always makes eye contact with me and smirks sometimes. one time i was at his house and he was walking around with his pants down but his boxers up. then one time we were in the bathroom and he came up next to me and pulled his shirt up and pulled his wang and balls out to take a piss. but when were around other guys he says how stuff like that is gay. do u think he wants to have a more intense relationship with me? should i ask him if he is bi/gay cuz i am bi and i want t to know if he is really badly. please help me....thanks.
2007-01-13 16:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by yOYo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The only way to really know is to come out to him, and if he is interested you will know.
2007-01-13 17:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by lunartic5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your both at the age of reasoning and consent (18) then just ask. If you have been friends for 11 years this is a subject that is long overdue for discussion.
Be real, be honest and be sincere. You can't go wrong using this strategy.
2007-01-15 18:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Herpman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be waaaaaaay extra ideal to inform them in individual... That letter ought to even make me experience awkward. nicely not truly, yet i'm gay. yet for a right now guy, that letter is type of awkward. you're thanks to passive aggressive and down on your self. do not say something like "sorry to make you uncomfortable as ****. i should be freaking out too if some guy i knew replaced into telling me he replaced into gay. nicely i does not refer to myself if i have been you, so i do not blame you in case you do not answer." All that needs to flow. He or they (couldnt tell) are/is your buddy and may not have a difficulty with it in case you do not have a difficulty with it. do not provide them/him the alternative to blow you off. It makes you sound ashamed of your self (which immediately you should type of be), notwithstanding it truly is extra ideal to act confident so that they recognize you're nonetheless the same individual you've continuously been yet you in effortless words like adult adult males.
2016-11-23 17:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be gay/bi, but the only way to truly know is if you ask him. I'm sorry to say this, but he sounds straight to me.
2007-01-13 16:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is your "best" friend, you've known him 11 years and you don't know his orientation? Okay, leaving that aside, why don't you talk to him about YOUR sexual orientation? If he's interested, you'll be the first to know.
2007-01-13 16:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds interested but not publically.
2007-01-13 16:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry he sounds straight to me.
2007-01-13 18:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, no better way
2007-01-13 16:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by foreverquilting2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he looks at u like he's in love duh
2007-01-13 16:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋