my x-bf is good for nothing.he left me with no enough reason.i still inlove to him but he hide,he not even text me.but he rang my phone,i dont know why?he hurts me a lot!i wanted to revenge him by making love to his brother..was it right?
2007-01-13 16:09:17 · 40 answers · asked by seductive77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No that is stupid and immature. Stop playing games and just walk away.
2007-01-13 16:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I am absolutely certain you'll regret it. Not to mention the fact that a piece of you will be carelessly given to someone you don't love. It will always seem as if men "take" and women "give" so no matter what do sexually you will not be able to come out on top. The best thing you can do is move on. The last thing you need is his brother talking about how you were some easy lay. Find someone who cares about you and show him what he is missing. By doing this you'll keep your dignity and I'm sure deep down inside he'll respect you more. Right now he may be trying to string you along but I'm sure you know what you are worth. Good luck, and think logically
2007-01-13 16:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by mctaggart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are about to do is not only going to backfire it is going to hurt like hell! The brother if he is low down enough to sleep with his brothers ex your just going to see you as a piece of a*s to him. Then when the act is done everyone is going to see you as being easy or sl*t for sleeping with both brothers. Not calling you one but that is what they are going to see you as. Your ex sounds childish. You need to leave him alone and let him grow up. Until then keep it moving ! If you can't handle talking to him as just a friend erase the number until he can act right. To keep your mind off of him take up a hobby. Like making a list of things you can do to improve your life so you can get someone way better than the loser who left your life. You have to love yourself before anyone else can love you sweetheart. If took me 25 yrs to learn that life lesson.
2007-01-13 16:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jha Jha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you would think you are going to hurt him, but all you will end up hurting is yourself. First of all no it is never alright to sleep with any body's brother who you are or were involved with. And second it will not do anything to this ex if he already does not care about you. But you will still fell bad. Why not just move on? Your body is worth more than that. You should value yourself little bit better and lift your head up and say to your ex "I am better than this ***** you and I deserve better than you" Please don't sleep with the brother, trust me you will not feel any better at the end.
2007-01-13 16:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cilek 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO if you do this then you are cheapening your self, making love to someone should be because you want to share the most intimate part of yourself with them never for revenge, if you do this then all you are doing is going down to his level, rise above it you are so much better than that
2007-01-13 16:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOSH!!! NO NO NO NO< that was not the right thing to do girl!!!! You are so going to regret doing this. What your ex-bf did, he did it not his brother. You scooped down to his level and you are better than that.
Just stay out of his way and don't bother having anything to do with this jerk!
2007-01-13 16:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by cowgirl! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No thats not right that is his brother you shouldnt come between them B/F and G/F come and go he is stuck with his bro for life plus think about the brothers feelings when he finds out you were using him
2007-01-13 16:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do that over a guy! You will regret it later in life. Trust me. Just move on and find someone new to like. Forget him if he hurts you. Don't go down to his level, it will make you a much better person than him if you just don't do it and ignore him! =]
2007-01-13 16:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not right. Your using your ex's brother to hurt him, and that in turn is going to hurt your ex's relationship with his brother. If you haven't gone through with it yet, I wouldn't if I were you. You will be branded as a s lut. If you haven't already been branded a s lut.
2007-01-13 16:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets hurt at some point in their life. Doing something that you'd later on regret is not worth it. Nor is doing something our of spite. The best thing to do is to move on & continue with your life, because you still have so much more ahead of you.
2007-01-13 16:15:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋