2007-01-13 15:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by hien tran 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be honest with that person and let them know you od not have the same feelings for them that they do for you.... But be nice about it. Let them down gently is all i am saying:) See if they would just be friends with you.
2007-01-13 15:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never said it back if I didn't mean it.
Love is not something to just throw around contrary to guys beliefs.
yeah hurt a lot of guys feelings but it was better to be honest then pertend that there was more there.
Not to say that love will never be there, it's just not there now for you .My husband told me he loved me first while we were doing the do and I tried to ignore it.Then he said it again when we were finished and I said that's nice and got up and left. I was shocked but later that day we talked about it and I was honest with the fact I wasn't there yet and him being mature said "thats cool but I still love you." Still together
2007-01-13 18:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't encourage them into thinking you're at that place yet. Tactfully tell them,that you like them alot,but aren't at the love level yet.
2007-01-13 15:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with them and tell them how you really
feel. they deserve to know the truth.
2007-01-13 15:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you evidently are playing games or he wouldn't be telling you he loves you,
2007-01-13 16:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I value your feelings for me; Mine are on the same path, but still growing."
or
"I value your feelings for me, but my feelings for you are just not heading in that direction. I'm sorry."
2007-01-13 16:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Athenart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST
2007-01-13 16:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋